I slept wit my ex boyfriend about a week ago after breaking up wit him two years ago. It was a case of having a mutual agreement to just have sex and nothing more. Anyway, when I went over to his place and did our thing, he seemed much nicer than I'd ever seen him, he offered to pay for my taxi which is unusual, he said he would invite me to his house-warming party, basically talking about the future tense with me included. I asked him if he wanted to have sex again another time and he readily agreed. A few days after (Tuesday just gone) I texted him getting straight to the point "Do you wanna f*ck me later?" he didn't respond and still hasn't, I've deleted his number so I'm not tempted to contact him. But from what you're reading, do you think he likes me?or am I wasting my time?. Also, someone once said that he loved me, but then when I had an argument wit that person, they quickly said, actually, no he didn't. Which was odd, this makes my think he did love me! GUYS HELP!
2006-12-17 00:12:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, you think he's got the last laugh by not replying to that text, cuz I haven't called or texted him since?! And why would he use me if sex was the only thing on the agenda anyway? I thought he liked me!
2006-12-17 00:12:40 · update #1
You are confused as to your objectives...what are you looking for, a buddy or a husband, or something in between?
Time for a little self reflection on what you want, and less on what he might be thinking.
2006-12-20 03:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by One Who Knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think just because he didn't reply to you that is is using you. At least no more than you are using him.... Are you sure it was him to sent the text too - and not someone else by accident?
Really though - he is your ex. Ex means just that. End. Finito, leave 'em alone. I'm sure niether of you feel that desperate that you have to troll one another for regular sex. He clearly doesn't love you - no-one treats someone they love so casually. Clearly you don't love him either - for the same reason.
Holding onto strings of what some friend said or didn't say is really rather sad. go by your gut feelings. Mine are that you aren't using yours. Maybe you are too young??
Get yourself a new life, make some new friends, start up some new hobbies and get your mind out of your underwear.
2006-12-17 00:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats there to be confused about he is using you for sex.I wish I could find some no strings attached sex.Sounds to me like he may have found someone else and is just using you as you are letting him.Move on girl there are lots of guys in this world because if you broke up 2 years ago I think the chances of you getting back together are close to slim and none.And if all you want is some good sex I will send you my number lol Good Luck
2006-12-17 00:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-05 10:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by murchison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know if I get all that. It sounds like you two agreed to have a strictly physical relationship and then he mentioned more and you offered more sex and then you were mad that he wanted it?
I don't think I totally get where your anger on this one is coming from.
Also if you want him to "like" you and respect you...don't have sex with him. If you're willing to give it up like, he's not going to view you as anything but a booty-call.
Stand-up for yourself and this crap won't happen.
I get very tired of hearing these same sob stories from women who feel they are being "used" and honestly, consensual sex always comes down to the woman saying yes or no. If women don't want to be "used" for sex...STOP HAVING SEX with guys who are using you for sex!!!
2006-12-17 00:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by tkatt00 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Frustrated and confused... that's why he's your ex... and if you like living with those feelings then stick around... other than that don't hope for something that is not there, move on for real this time and leave his memory as a bad lesson from the past... it's fire and every time you touch it you get burnt...
2006-12-17 00:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you feel used? If he is a good lay why not just use him whenever you can for some self satisfaction.
You don't have to be in love to have good sex and you have something he will want often.
2006-12-17 00:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is there in body love is from the soule no he doesn't loves u he only uses ur body to get rid of the pain and excitment and call of nature exitment so as same can be said at ur end too . so just don't stick to him as per after reading a whole of ur so & so. plz just let him go and u enjoy ur life.
2006-12-17 00:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by SG 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd put money on him having a girlfriend who has been with him since yr text & he deleted it right away so she didn't see it & he hasn't replied because she would ask who he's texting. If he was nice to you then i don't see any other reason as to why he'd ignore more sex without comitment.
2006-12-17 00:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you had a mutual agreement to just have sex and nothing more, maybe he is just being a gentleman and keeping his side of the bargain. my take is you used each other for sex, so dont feel used, you used him too for your gratification.
2006-12-17 00:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by evets 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋