Suppose there was a guy you've like for a long time, but for whatever reason, the two of you couldn't or didn't get it together.
Now suppose your best female friend hooks up with him (to whatever extent), knowing full-well how the two of you feel about each other.
What would you think and do? Really think about it. . .don't tell us what you'd WANT to do, but rather what you'd do about:
A) Your best friend - Is she forgivable?
B) The guy - Is he no longer date-able?
Again, give it some thought, and don't write spontaneously if you wouldn't act spontaneously.
2006-12-17 00:00:05 · 18 answers · asked by ThatGuy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do I ask a question in English and she answers me in Latin?
Interesting diversity in the answers. . .thanks.
2006-12-17 00:21:34 · update #1
Big help, TheKid. . .you keep on rockin' it wit yo bad self, y'hear me babygirl?
2006-12-17 00:27:56 · update #2
I'd be angry of course, but my girlfriend comes first before a guy does, its the AGC (All Girlfriends Code)...guys should never break friendship...
I'd be silent for a few days, and heart broken a bit...but if my girlfriend was honest on liking that other guy too, and it wasnt to revenge on me in anyway, we'd make a deal...like she has to introduce me to him or something...or no smoochy in front of me, and never talk about him again in our conversation...
it was the guy who asked her, and its her right to accept, I'd try to understand...no matter how hard it was...yes, I would think she was stabbing me, but I'd also think how she really cared about me and it was just her luck to be asked by him...
but I'd never liked the guy anymore...becuz he couldnt even SEE me in the first place, I'd try to get over him...and find a better guy for revenge...
revenge is sweet....
2006-12-17 00:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 10:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by murchison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it would not happen to me because I would have let the guy know my feelings before my girlfriend stepped in.
If it did happen, I would have no qualms about going after the guy even though my best friend was seeing him. The reason is in the scenario you gave, she knew I had the hots for him before she went after him. This would tell me she is not a friend at all, therefore I would take him away from her.
She would not be forgiven as she proved she is not really a friend.
2006-12-17 00:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A - I'd forgive but never forget that she would cut my grass like that
B - After dating the friend, I'd probably turn off him coz you would always know in the back of your mind that they were together
A - i'd really let my friend have it also .. as a friend she should know that you would like the guy and respect you NOT go for the guy you like (what a scrag!)
B - hes a guy ... he wont say no to dating anyone
hope this helps?
2006-12-17 00:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your best girl friend or whatever is forgiveable but you need to remember just because its forgiveable doesn't mean it's forgetable you always need to remember that. The guy he is still date-able that is if you both still want to date eachother just because you friend dated him doesn't me that now you can't.Well does this help let me no
2006-12-17 00:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by thekid_4_11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would forgive my friend. If she bet me to a hot guy bad luck for me and good luck for her.
I wouldn't date him afterwards. I'd assume he had gone after the one he was interested in. Seems a bit like second hand goods to get involved afterwards.
2006-12-17 00:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) I'd be very upset, but hey, I didn't do anything about it and if that's going to make her happy (she'd obviously liked him too) and she was willing to act on it, then go for it. I wish her happiness.
B) the guy would no longer be dateable. He has feelings for me but is going out with my friend? If I get with him and he ends up falling inlove with me, will that mean he could still sleep with other girls too?
Nah, that's unacceptable to have feelings for one person but then go out with their friend.
2006-12-17 00:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend: forgivable under certain circumstances (for some reason she was not herself such as being under influence of alcohol or drugs)
Guy: No longer datable.
2006-12-17 00:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would HE hook up with the best friend IF he liked the other one? She's a two-faced, back stabbing ho that could never be trusted again, so she's out, and he's an idiot so he's out too.
2006-12-17 00:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!good day!
I wont atomatically react as some people do. I will try bring the truth out. TThats it.
Enna purenjedha? purenjerekkum na nenikeren.
U will surely understand that if you know tamil.
Poda pathium.
Idh ella oru kelvi.
2006-12-17 00:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by Meera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋