Do you ever consider that you might be hurting them? Do you ever think about trying to work things out? Are you 100% sure that you did everything you could to make things work? I wonder if most people are just too lasy to try to work things out?
2006-12-16 22:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by Jim V 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah I think people are lazy and have too much pride to get help when it gets tough, they think it would be easier and more fun to hook up with someone else, they yurn for that new feeling you get with someone when you first meet them, Once that feeling is gone its hard to get it back, People dont now how to work. Expecially in this new age where in, everything can be handed in a less than a second, we move at the speed of light these days with technology, we don't stop to think that these things are real and are very conveniante but whatever happended to working hard, it makes you feal good, whatever happended to that plow, its been replaced with a tractor with ac and tv, and a beer and soda frig, hard work has gone from our jobs and from our homes, and our life
2006-12-16 22:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by SHADOW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, really it depends on the situation, and the kind of relationship that you were having. If it was a relationship where you were been abused, not only physically, but emotionally, I believe the best thing you can do for YOURSELF is to terminate the relationship. Even if it's a two year relationship, if you were been hurt, it's just not healthy for your mental well being to keep on it.
Now, if it's just a normal relationship, you have to sit down and analyze the series of events that lead you to take such decision. Maybe you feel trapped; some people were not born to endure long, serious relationships. Maybe you stopped loving the person. And I don't mean that what you feel for you other someone has totally gone away, but maybe it's not as strong as it used to be in the beginning, and it's not strong enough as to sustain a relationship.
Or maybe it's just a little confusion. In that case, I believe you should take a short break to think on your own about what's going on. In a vast majority of the cases, the people come back together, because they realized they still loved each other very much; it's just that they really needed a little time to breath.
2006-12-17 06:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa016 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when with a person you are with for two years does the unthinkable or your just bored of one another it is very natural to have some distancce after a while. the 2 yr relationship, i know it is frustrating when you think the other is not putting any effort into it... but one thing to think that other person probably thinks that they don't have to ... do you remember when you and that signficant other got into your last fight... one cries and the other is going what the hell is wrong with you (or maybe no crying, unknown to me)... people get USED to one another... not making a effort is only b/c the other is thinking that you will always be together through thick or thin and/or they really are just wishing to move on... when you are with some one for so long you don't know a life with out them... and then you think about it your are in the situation right now to make that decision whether to get rid of the person you know everything about and adore everything that the other person does... but what you can really think about it do you really need that person?do you think your going to grow old with that person? is it always about winning and seeing how mad you can get the other person b/c you can't get what you want? no, and then you move and realize that you have just pushed something so heavy off your chest knowing that you don't have to impress someone to get them to stay with you... if you say yes, you be with the ther person you have always been with for the past 2 years and you are misreable b/c you don't have something knew and you always think that the other is not giving enougn into it now b/c we had this scare of a break-up.
I did it i let the other go after 2 years... yes you feel that they are the one.... but have you reall ymade the adventure to find another that you feel perfect about and you feel that they are giving you the same vibe.... try it i promise that this will not fail.
ALSO YOU CAN NEVER DO 100% TO GET THEM BACK IF THEY DON'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU...
2006-12-17 07:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love the person you're with, you wouldn't even think about breaking up with him/her. You will tolerate everything, from his/her good traits down to the bad ones. You should accept and deal with each other's differences. Now, if you think you are lazy to work things out, it just means your love for that person is not enough. Better break up with him/her and find someone you will give up everything for.
2006-12-17 06:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by nozmiat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you worked all your problems out!
Sometimes trying to solve a problem just tangle things into a worse situation! and sometimes leaving the one you love is better for the two!
2006-12-17 06:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by mwa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are Billons of people in the world. Get a new one!
For example, go to China, easy to get a new match.
2006-12-17 06:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by justfornets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN I TRIED ON MINE FOR 15 YEARS BEFORE I BOUNCED I EVEN TOLD HIM TO GO GET MEDS QUIT DRINKING I WARNED HIM I WAS LEAVING HE DIDNT TAKE IT SERIOUSLY YES ITS BEEN THE ROUGHEST YEAR OF MY LIFE BUT ITS GETTING A LITTL EBETTER
2006-12-17 06:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by aengel69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it ain't hppenin let go...dont wait until a child i involved
2006-12-17 06:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No to all.
2006-12-17 06:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋