2006-12-16 22:39:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stacy and Jan said it best. If she cheats once, she WILL cheat again. Unless you want to be a doormat for her, then forget her worthless *** and move on.
2006-12-16 22:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Amazing. 22 answers, and no one wonders why your question is whether you should forgive the girl, and not whether you should forgive the girl and the best friend.
You should forgive neither. The girl should be unforgiven unconditionally, whereas the friend should be forgiven ONLY if he had no way to know that you and the girl were together. If he knew, as is highly likely, he's in the same boat as the girl. If either of them have any of your stuff, get it back. Now. If you have anything that belongs to either of them, set it on your porch. After dark. In the rain. Then call them and tell them that they can come get their stuff. After you knock on a few neighbors doors and offer them some free stuff. Then go inside, lock your door, and turn the TV/music up really loud so you can't hear anyone knock on your door or your phone ring.
2006-12-17 14:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say if you are married or single...If married, it may be worth the effort and heartache to forgive her....if single, then don't bother....everyone is so correct...once a cheater, always a cheater....IF you can't FORGET don't even try to forgive....you won't be able to and in the long run it will just be worse.
..On the other hand, I know of 2 brothers in the same position... and one forgave the other and the marriage reconciled...SHE went after the younger brother while they were separated...Now who is more miserable? They are once again living as man and wife and the brother feels like an outcast....while the brother who was cheated on wants out now...
2006-12-16 22:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by nancy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her..YES!
Marry her? Not a chance in the World! If she cheated on you once, she will cheat on you again and again...
Obviously, your not the man she wants, and I doubt if she wants you back anyways.. If she does, its just that she "needs" some one, until she has eyes on her next conquest...
Besides, you will never trust her again, and there would always be "doubt" in your mind, when your at work and she is at home or work herself...so, chalk this one up as a lost cause and be greatful that you found out before marriage...
I wish you well...
Jesse
2006-12-16 22:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should forgive her ,love should be unconditional ,but then she should show some remorse as well as a firm purpose of ammendment not to do again if she really loves you and then theres the case of you best friend hes just as much at fault forgive him as well but lose him,hes not really your friend
2006-12-16 22:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by andy253 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forgive her as well as FORGET her, and move on, you deserve someone who loves you so much that it is impossible for her to cheat with someone else.
2006-12-16 22:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can forgive her..ur only human...
but you dont have to take her back...
once she's cheated on u, she can cheat again...
2006-12-16 22:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ hOnEy ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her yes, but dismiss her!!
2006-12-17 01:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, she cheated on you, thats not a nice way just end it from now it hurts i know just move on.. she should known better
2006-12-16 22:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life's short is she really your friend say you were a termal case in other words you are going to die soon would you want to end with your life the way it is
2006-12-16 22:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by ertw t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋