Basically, I found this posting by her on yahoo answers...
Where can I meet asian men who likes to date mix or black women?
I like asian men and would like to know if there is a website that's FREE. to meet asian men who likes black, latina or mix women.
I have seriously dated asian men before. We were together for two years my last relationship
I found this on a Monday (12/04) and we had a little argument on Saturday (12/02), but it turned out that she posted this on Thursday (12/30)!! So I decided to copy and paste that question and emailed her calling her an "effin' wh*re."
She comes back trying to make me feel guilty saying she could never forgive me for calling her that and blah blah, she got off on a huge tangent on what a horrible person I was and such and such.
At the same time, I had made reservations to take her on vacation this Christmas in Aruba but didn't tell her yet...so we kinda broke up.
Just to get some feedback, did I overreact or is she crazy?
2006-12-16 22:11:46 · 20 answers · asked by lancelot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, it's actually 12/03, NOT 12/30!!
2006-12-16 22:16:53 · update #1
Damn, I meant to say 11/30, NOT 12/03...so it was posted prior to the little argument.
2006-12-16 22:25:58 · update #2
You didn't overreact.Good riddance.
2006-12-16 22:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by chante 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this case I think you did overreact to the situation. You could have done it better by asking something similar to these "Why did you post such a thing because it hurts me?" or "Are you trying to tell me something with this posting?" But if you too did break up then I would just move on and find a friend (fe)male to go there with. Or you can possibly sell the tickt(s) that you don't want on ebay or to a couple you know.
2006-12-16 22:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by kataklysmkamel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kind Of You Shouldent Have Called Her A Name for It even Tho She did It and Lied..It was Still wrong for You To call her a Name But It was wrong of Her to Post that When she was with You..You May Have hurt her so she had a right to say she would Never forgive You But she may have Been trying To Make you feel Guilty That way She was off The hook for what she Did..You we're Both In The wrong..
2006-12-16 22:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by MommyOf3Buttercups 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think anyone overreacts when they call their significant other out of their name but she should have talked to you about issues she may be having with you but sometimes depending on the situation that could be kinda hard to do. But you do have every right to be upset because i would have too. Hope y'all still get to make that trip after all it's Christmas so maybe y'all can use that trip to work things out. Good Luck!
2006-12-16 22:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not have posted the question. Instead of getting mad at you for what you called her, she should have been appologizing like crazy for posting the question. Did she say she was sorry or did she retract the question? If not, then take someone else on the trip because she is not being faithful!! She is probably out there looking for another guy as we speak, or, well, type...
Sorry dude!
2006-12-16 22:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that I would have called her a name, that isn't usually the type speech I use, but I definitely would have confronted her, and there would be a 99% probability of me breaking up with her.
If she wasn't being faithful to you now she is dangerous because there are allot of STD's out there, and she probably would not be faithful to you when the relationship grew more serious.
2006-12-16 22:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Maxine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what did she expect? She was online trying to find a date while you and her suppose to be dating..You called her a name,simply because you were angry..What about what she did?I would be mad too.She is mad because she was caught doing something she wasn,t suppose to be doing,so she turned it around on you trying to make a BIG issue of what you said and trying to pass the buck so to speak and make it all your fault.Don,t let her do that.Tell her her im sorry about calling you a name when i caught you trying to cheat! Now whats your excuse? and see what she has to say about that......
2006-12-16 22:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes "shopping" around while shes supposed to be with you, then you are better off without her.
Enjoy your vacation in Aruba.......with a friend. Kick the chick to the curb.
2006-12-16 22:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by TheTruthHurts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that she definately should not have posted that if you two are together. It isn't right, but at the same time i don't think its right for you to call her a name. I understand that you are mad and i would have been mad also but try no to call her names. You can get mad and raise your voice if you need to get your points across just dont call her names or hit her. that is just my true honest opinion. I am leaning more on your side...she shouldnbt have done that...
2006-12-16 22:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by kkds14 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i dont think you over reacted. You was hurt and pissed off and if she really loved you then she would understand. the understanding part is not instantly though it would piss me off also the words you said but then id think about it and let it go cuz i was in the wrong. anyways i hope you said more than calling her that like why did she post it or why she is doing that.
2006-12-16 22:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by kaligurl1229 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never hurts to speak with an ex, it does not advise u have become back jointly. tell her easily the harm and discomfort she brought about you, and in case you do no longer have faith her, tell her, be open and trustworthy, and additionally it may be reliable of you to no longer leave your present day gf out of the loop. tell her you will communicate with this lady- communicate and only communicate, if she desires to be latest, that is a plus, and a huge have faith ingredient for you the two.
2016-10-05 10:15:14 · answer #11 · answered by murchison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋