2006-12-16 21:48:18 · 26 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being 28 myself,yes i would be able to know you are inexperienced but no it doesnt mean you are weak
2006-12-16 21:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women know, yes. Think about why you've reached this point in your life without ever having a sexual relationship - it's not 'weak' but is a bit unusual, if you don't have specific moral ideas against pre-marital sex. Are you just shy? Picky? Put off by the idea of casual sex? Lacking confidence in your appearance or desirability? Decide what kind of relationship you'd like as a first experience, and take it from there.
Don't just see it as a hurdle to be got over though - my current bf had no sexual experience when we got together, and he was 33. We were friends a long time before we got round to anything you might call a 'date' (he is a very shy private sort of man). He did tell me he hadn't had a lot of experience, when we got to the stage of talking about safe sex, but only when we finally slept together did I realise not a lot = none. When I asked him about it he admitted it, and said he hadn't dared be completely upfront because it was a bit 'geeky'. I thought that was such a pity - I'd have tried to make the experience nicer for him if I'd known, less rushed and pressured, and more special, so he wasn't trying to 'perform' as if he'd been doing it all his life. It was fairly special anyway though. He's actually now a pretty wonderful lover - we've made up for lost time like rabbits;-)
Seriously, find someone you have feelings for and trust, would be my advice, and be honest with her - it will make a bond between you. And for better sex.
2006-12-16 23:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by categ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well! you just can't lay there like a woman can, and get away with it. She can have or have not, an orgasm and you'd never know it, however you on the other hand, things happen when you do it. I think you already know that much, don't you?
So. Speak with an older relative that you can trust to tell you the truth about such matters so you'll know what to expect when the time comes.
There must be someone around that could tell you. This does not mean your weak, it only means you didn't get around as much as some guys did. I have a grandson that's in the same boat as your in. Don't worry about it.
2006-12-16 21:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not make you a weak person. And when it comes to sexual experiences, you will have to determine how you want to learn them.
How do you want to lose your virginity?
1. To someone you are in love with?
2. On a one night stand?
3. With a friend?
4. With a prostitute
No matter what your choice is, you can check out books to learn more about sex, you can ask your doctor, or you can just go out in the dark and try things on your own. You can watch some porn videos and ask your friends or father lots of questions.
Good luck, just be safe about it.
2006-12-16 21:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman probably knows but if u are inexperienced but what does that matter if she really cares about you? she wont care if u are inexperienced and if anything she will be flattered that u want to gain experience with her, also it could be an advantage to her as she will be able to teach what she likes. It doesnt take long to get the hang of it all.
2006-12-17 01:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley_1714 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No It doesn't mean you are weak at all, I actually think that some women (experienced or not) would find it very attractive. You can claim with mucho confidence that you saved the experience and waited for the right woman to come along to introduce you to the joys of sex.
Sex in a relation bring a lot of extra's (good and bad...) you have something coming! Good luck!
2006-12-16 21:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jungleboy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have no sexual experience does not mean you are weak. In today's society many people lose their virginity at an early age and then regret it. I personally believe in saving yourself for marriage. and for the second part of your question, i believe that if you worry about it too much then women will notice, not all women want sex, they want some one to be there for them.
2006-12-16 21:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by ruffusesm31 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it means that you are weak. It also depends on how experienced the woman is as to whether she will know how inexperienced you are.
2006-12-16 21:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by JoJi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can certainly tell when a man is inexperienced, however; most women are loving, emotional by nature, and we would be happy to guide you on how to make love.
2006-12-16 21:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure but if ur not likely to get an experienced woman if youve never had sex before. I think its a sin isnt it? Shouldnt your love also be inexperienced?
2006-12-16 21:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋