2006-12-16 21:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by jmk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well depending on how you have been treated by guys there are different answers. If you've been out on dates with nothing but assholes then look for a different type of guy. If you just don't trust them maybe the ones around youaren't worth trusting. I will tell you most guys are jerks. There are still a few of us that are acctually good guys but we are far and few between. Often times the good guys will go to church but just be carefull is the best advice i can give.
2006-12-16 21:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by underfear18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to trust anyone period...all you can do is take chance on the ones that closely connect with you personally rather than sexually or passionately. If the guy has good qualities, ya'll are cool together, and sex isn't even remotely in the time spent together....then you're on the right track.....
Take things slow....so that the trust can be GAINED. That doesn't mean prejudge the man, and kick him to the curb on the slightest hint of mistrust..give him the benefit of the doubt and go in....just don't give yourself to him in regards to sex, or intimate demands.
Only solution that works for me so far.....
2006-12-16 21:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swti pie.. If u don't have self belief him from the very begginning u under no circumstances will.. Bt u no longer on my own in this both.. maximum ladies wade through this.. Sum guy/fool cumz alongside and breaks a ladies heart by using dishonest on her.. next thng u kno ur sayn "all adult males are a similar" which isn't authentic @ all.. Now the first thng u have 2do is conquer ur concern.. Thrs no element in jumping in2 a sparkling courting if u have not healed perfect yet.. Anothr thng is.. under no circumstances accuse a sparkling lover 4 the flaws ur previous lover did.. smart words ne? U shud carry onto that.. Oh, and as 4the guy? do not textual content him to any extent further.. Wait till he contacts u now, and at the same time as he does ask him the thngs u ask right here. Be open with him aswell.. With have self belief cums honesty!! desire i ought to help! Take care xoxo
2016-10-18 09:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bench yourself from dating for awhile. Take that time to reflect, observe others, regroup . . . then go out there again after several weeks or three months with more emotional knowledge and a higher dating value.
2006-12-16 21:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually we trust a faithful person .If I am not wrong U are hanging out with a wrong person or ur mind is wrong.lol :)
2006-12-17 00:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, becasue i have trouble trusting girls, i guess it may not be that bad, just have to find the right one.
2006-12-16 21:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be ur own foot.. i mean trust ur self first..try to observe ,like him and be company of him have Fun.!.enjoy urlyf..think positively to ur friend..keep it up..not all guys are bad..just trust them..be URSELF..SMILE..
2006-12-16 21:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by jan marie v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with someone, you will start trusting him throughout.
2006-12-16 21:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Seagull 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems like you are hanging with the wrong crowd change your friends
2006-12-16 21:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't,... your ahead of the game.... :D
2006-12-16 21:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋