I've Never came across one tough person to get a date with. Its confusing whereby i dont really know if she's still interested or she's playing a game of cat and mouse chase. She tell's me she likes me and stuff. But whenever i try to get her to come out with me she staggers and starts feeling nervous and shy till the point. I ended up Not breaking the ice. I dont understand... i'm attracted to her cause she is macho and she's attracted to me by making the first move on contact cause i look like a girly guy. There were times when she was talking to me she mentioned that she didnt want any boyfriends and also brought a question to me that she doesnt want short term relationships. Of Course i do not want a short term relationship with her. She's my very dream come thru and i've been waiting for a woman that would dominate a submissive guy like me. Been talkin to her on the phone for almost 3 weeks and i just want a date with this tough cookie. Any cheesie idea's to help me nail it?
2006-12-16 21:19:50 · 2 answers · asked by Lawrence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tried moving on... like saying "Alright i wont bother you no more". and stuff like that? But she just stops me from doing so.
That is why its getting complicating for me. I went to as far to strategise somthing like "ok i wont ask you out on a date any more so the ball is in your court now coz im tired and its about time i turned the tables". And all she does is apologises. I even told her if she's hiding anything? "like if she's in another relationship or she doesnt want her job to be jeopardise by me". And she denies thats not the issue. She says she just feels weird...
I asked if i was intimidating to her and stuff like that and she says "No i really like you".
I even said if she was feeling unconfident about herself going out on a date with me? If its financial stuff i could cover that $$ no prob to me or if she's having a bad hairday or an acne break out etc i wouldn't care how she'd look like i only want her for her personality thats all.
2006-12-16 21:43:06 · update #1