but my parents never allow me please advice me so that it looks like a arrange marrige and both famillies should be happy please help me please help me
2006-12-16 20:18:49 · 9 answers · asked by minni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am punjabi and he is christan we love each other but i love my dad too so i don't want to cheat my dad instead with his blessings i want to marry my love please it is requet to all give some serious advice that is worht wile and such that it should look like a arrange marrige help me please
2006-12-16 20:53:04 · update #1
Any marriage between two individuals having different religion can only be solemnised in India Under The Special Marriage Act,1954. Any such marriage has to be solemnised before the marriage registrar under whose jurisdiction any or both the parties to the said marriage usually reside. Such a marriage registrar is usually the SDM of the district where either or both the parties resides. Such a marriage in simple language is also called the Court Marriage. This the only legal form of inter-religious marriage in India without any party to the marriage getting converted to the religion of the other party. I have just told you the legal aspect of such a marriage you are looking forward. Now if you discuss the legal aspect with your parents & tell them you dont have to change religion for the sake of marriage I think they will agree if they dont have any other objections to your marriage with this person. Dear child the advice I am giving you is very serious & practical I am a Lawyer by profession & father of a daughter of your age who will be getting married very soon.
2006-12-16 20:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes down to whether you believe the same things they believe.
If you don't- do you have the courage to defy them and act on your own beliefs whether or not it's ok with them?
If not, who / what are you?
I don't think children— anyone who need their parents permission to make a serious life decision is a child, regardless of their age— should be getting married at all.
2006-12-17 04:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c'mon, i don't think having different religion matters much, if you are happy with him+ wanna marry, do. Yet, there are lots of other people who you can look for+ not upset your family. If you think you guy really go along together great+ will, do marry. Wish you the best happiness....
2006-12-17 04:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have to convince your parents first so that they agree on the issue . so that it may look as a arrange marrige
2006-12-17 08:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it clear to them that, ultimately, the only thing that matters is love. and since the both of you have that, you should take the next step.
to add on, they're your parents. they'll definitely understand if you put it in the right way.
all the best!
i hope everything works out just fine for you!
2006-12-17 04:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by drool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are u muslim? and how old are you two? if your gonna marry each other shouldnt have much to do with your parents.. theire not gonna be around your whole life... you should stand up for yourself and talk to your parents and his parents possibly that you two are grown folks and understand the consequences of life and marriage.. let them know that your grown enough to make a decision for yourself!
2006-12-17 04:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pl tell him o earn more or something
family want the both must be settle & wih good life wihout an financial problem first
2006-12-17 13:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by rajan p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WITHOUT PARENTS IT WILL NOT BE ARRANGE MARRIAGE IF YOU ARE SO MUCH SERIOUS GO FOR COURT MARRIAGE OTHERWISE YOU REMAIN WITH ADVISE OF YOUR PARENTS.
2006-12-17 04:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to convience your parents little hard
2006-12-17 04:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by riti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋