I'm fascinated about what makes a man tick.
2006-12-16 20:13:30 · 42 answers · asked by SOL SIREN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It REALLY doesn't work for me. I just want to be loved and appreciated by a pleasant and faithful woman. If I have to fight to get a little attention from a woman, it's difficult to feel that way. Good night!
2006-12-16 20:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not so much. Personally, I'm more interested in someone who is straightforward. Playing games, I'll pass. Who's going to make the first move? Who's going to call? Whatever!
And that's just the tip of the iceberg. How about someone who sees a guy she's interested in and introduces herself. What's with all the staring girls do?
I guess most guys are desperate enough to fall for the bait. As for myself you better bring your A-game. I'm ex-special forces though so that's standard fare at this diner.
To me, a girl who plays games can keep on playing them. I have the ability to hold a conversation on a wide variety of topics and have been told I'm one of the more interesting people others meet. I say this not to impress you - because you'll never really know who I am - but to impress upon you that I'm definitely not your ordinary guy. Having said that, if a girl doesn't have what it takes to approach me then she'll never have a chance.
Chasing skirts is definitely not my idea of time well spent. I'll let other guys have all of that they want.
So what turns me on? Bold, uplifting, meaningful, intelligent women. Not just booksmart. Anyone can read books and talk baloney. I'm talking independent thinking capability and emotional intelligence. I guess I'm always looking for Ms. Special Forces - instead of ordinary.
2006-12-16 20:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What makes a man tick varies with every man. You are not like all other women so why should you expect all men to be alike.
Some men are turned on if you play hard to get....there is the 'thrill of the chase' as opposed to the capture!
But your wording is rather telling: 'PLAY hard to get' suggests that you are acting at something that is not really you.
Why should you think it normal to be 'easy to get' and therefore HAVE to play at being different.
Just be yourself but remember, most men will RESPECT you if you respect yourself, whether or not it 'turns them on'
(That suggests something robot-like, too, doesn't it?
2006-12-16 20:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only turns on pathetic guys who would otherwise pay for sex. Guys actually capable of getting booty and with a track record of success would rather move on to a mature girl who doesn't need to resort to games to try to psyche out guys. For the experienced, confident man, it just makes him want to give it to you in the back door as payback.
On the other hand, when a girl doesn't play hard to get, she shouldn't expect flowers the next day or a wedding ring down the road.
2006-12-16 20:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not in the way most girls think of playing hard to get.
If a girl is flirty and creates tension over time leading the guy to speculate about possibilities while there remains some uncertainty, then yes. That is the excitement of the chase.
However, if she acts like she is not interested or she's interested in someone else, that's not playing hard to get, that is rejecting him. No, that's a failure of a strategy.
2006-12-16 20:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by FSJD 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't do that to guys. I just test them out by my own personal questions i ask my self and then see if the guy i like fits ALL my likings. But the thing is i REALLY don't know until it does REALLY happen for me and i am in a REAL good going relationship build up :-)
2006-12-16 20:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't turn me on if a girl plays hard to get.
2006-12-16 20:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok let me clear something up guys like to SLEEP with easy girls. when u play "hard to get" its a conquest it'll keep them intrested, but when u tease don't do it to much to where u piss him off. when u do give it up still play hard to get but not all the time. it dosn't work 4 all guys but alot of them it is. personly i love it
2016-05-23 01:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between being a very alluring femme fatal ... and getting dumped .. so don't play too hard to get if you want the guy.
2006-12-16 20:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by JOHN W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well.. according to me, it does until a certain level.
make sure you try it with the right guy. if he's really impatient, you're definitely wasting you're time. if he's smiling every time you play hard to get, that means, he's enjoying it, and he wants you to continue doing so.
before letting him go, make sure you give a reward for getting turned on. a kiss would do.
all the best!
i hope you get more info on what turns on a guy!
2006-12-16 20:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
well if ya going to play hard to get I will look for someone else due to I am not a person that likes mind games
2006-12-16 20:16:46 · answer #11 · answered by robertjayau 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋