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I know it's not love, but it sure does feel like it. I was dumped by my girlfriend about six months ago, after about a year of dating. Now I'm stationed overseas in Doha, Qatar, and I keep feeling depressed and just...absolutely wrecked. She absolutely was everything that I wanted in a woman, and I'm afraid I'll never find someone that clicks with me like she did. We still talk on AIM. I can't stop looking at pictures of her, us, things like that, and I have this intense desire to know what she's doing, who she's doing it with...I want to be involved in her life again. I feel like a stalker, but I can't get her out of my head and move on. I'm extremely jealous of the guy she's with now, and one of her friends told me that my ex feels like I'm not getting the hint that she's happy now...but I just can't let go. I don't know what to do to move on, and I really need some help. I'm sick of having this heavy, sickening sensation in my stomach when I think about her or look at pictures.

2006-12-16 19:58:10 · 4 answers · asked by Nathan 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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feelings like this is very common among people who just break up from a relationship that meant a lot to them.
all you have to do is:-
(a) slowly move away from her memories
lessen the number of times you look at her photos and things that remind you of her.

(b) try to move on
concentrate on things that can be very productive than to constantly think about her and make yourself feel even more down because she's with another man.

(c) go fishing
always bear in mind, that there are so many fishes in the sea. there are so many girls and women around you. the possibilities of finding another women just like her, is very high. you should set a bait for some other girl. try it out. when she can find someone else, so can you!

take it like a man!
you can do it!

2006-12-16 20:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

searching for own counseling is the first step. you want to be able to tell apart between genuine motives to get jealous and petty motives. First you want sparkling perspective for your self before you could rightly decide your husband's habit. A counselor will also help you with innovations you could frame of mind hour husband about what is going to be genuine topics. it will be a vicious cycle. You percieve a reason to be jealous, and blow up at him, so he feels like he won't be able to win and tells a woman on facebook she's rather. Or, he tells the female she's rather and that bothers you so at the same time as he says hi to the female on the pretzel stand in the mall it type of feels like this is fairly some thing. It is going both innovations. Your section is the actually section you could administration, and perchance if part of the cycle is taken away, you his section will go away too.

2016-10-18 09:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

If you are stationed somewhere overseas,it is quite natural for you to miss the things that remind you of home and the comforts of familiar love.She does not understand what you are going through,and it sounds as if you have too much on your plate to go find new love in Doha,and where would you look?,ya know??
Anyway,if it makes you feel better,think of her,bu also,be real about it and know that for now ,she's moved on.If she tells you to leave her alone,do so,but if she does'nt then don't.Personally,I like to leave my exes behind and not to pretend to be friends ,etc.I think it feels better to move on.But, to each his own.Good luck,and keep your eyes open.PEACE.

2006-12-16 20:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She doesn't like you man! How could you be so obsessed with a woman who does not like you? It's better to be alone than with a woman like that! One year of dating isn't so long that you should be giving up! Keep looking! You may have to go through DOZENS of women before you find a suitable one. Good night!

2006-12-16 20:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0 0

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