i mean lets say i wanna settle down and have some kind of serious relationship .. so i meet a nice lady and told her about my past..
i'm a player/fling around/wild/party yes u can call me a jerk too ...
would u as a lady forgive the past?? i mean dont worry i'm clean.
i'm not saying i want to settle and be more serious totally now .. but part of me just wonder and worried that if i really meet the one and she cant look through my past mistakes.. how will i get through it???
2006-12-16 19:57:17 · 9 answers · asked by Edward H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the question is..... would you be able to forgive a girl her past???
Hmmmm..... are you expecting something you would not do yourself?? Or are you one of these blokes who sows his wild oats with every woman he can and then looks around for a virgin to marry??? Hmm??
2006-12-17 15:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're genuine and you come across that way... yes, a spotty part is definitely forgivable. It's about making a lifestyle change though - settling down with one lady is not the same as playing the game. Be sure you're truly ready to settle before you break a nice girls heart.
2006-12-17 04:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by blue_munkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the title of your question again. If you feel you need to be forgiven for the way you live, then perhaps you should think about changing the things in your life you feel you need forgiveness for. You cannot be happy with someone else, if you are not happy with yourself.
2006-12-17 04:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find an x jerk like u who wants to do the same u no the highschool snoby chiks
2006-12-17 04:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by siddharth d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to be honest, but it's hard for women to trust someone who admits to being a man-sl*t. You made your bed, now lay in it.
2006-12-17 04:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a past, its up to you to make any future relationships last by behaving (!!!) and respecting your partner and yourself
2006-12-17 04:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by michelle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so clear about yourself. it means you are a nice person.A person with a clear heart and mind will definately like you. good luck.
2006-12-17 04:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will both have to REALLY trust each other well and be comfortable to talk to each other well.
2006-12-17 04:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur hott, i totally would.
2006-12-23 00:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by METAL CHICK_est.1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋