my girlfriend told me not too long ago that she is flirting with some guys that like her....... we've been dating for about 14 months........ she thinks it's not a big a deal, when she doesn't want me to do ANYTHING with ANY other girls..... what the hell am i supposed to do now?? she says i'm the one but i'm not sure how to take this.........
2006-12-16 19:51:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, she's cheating on you. Leave the b*tch
2006-12-16 23:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by white.devil 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Show her or tell her it's not alright ,,,, Let her know it upsets you and if she feels about you the way she should she should stop doing this for your sake ,,,, If she doesn't then that's a good indication of where your relatioship is at ,,,, A relationship should be fun and exciting not what you describe having with her ,,,, There are plenty of fish in the pond ,,,, Start your own program of flirting and see what you can catch ,,,,, Find some one that will treat you the way they should instead of putting you on edge like your girlfriend does ,,,, I think that if she felt about you the way she should then she'd be bending over backwards to show you how much she cares about you ,,,,, If she's not doing that then I'd question her loyalty ,,,, Just might be time to move on ,,,,
2006-12-17 05:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not sure how to take that because you should NOT BE TAKING IT! Tell her if she wants to flirt with other guys she can leave you the hell alone from now on. The more you put up with that $hit the worse it's going to get. It shows a lack of respect for you on her part. Women KNOW that guys hate that behavior with a passion. She's doing this on purpose now, especially if you told her it bothers you. I really don't see that you have much of a future with her. Good luck!
Oh yeah . . . don't pay any attention to those answerers telling you to explain your feelings to her. You have to be tough, man! If you start telling her how much you love and respect her as you tell her what's bothering you, you will come off as more than a bit insecure. She might leave you after you put your foot down, but I think she would have left you anyway. You deserve a better woman than that. It's better to be alone than with a woman who you can't trust. Good night!
2006-12-17 03:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that she shouldn't be doing anything with guys that she wouldn't want you doing with girls. Tell her that you love and respect her and that you wouldn't make her feel uncomfortable or disrespected by flirting with girls and that that is how she is making you feel... uncomfortable and disrespected because she is flirting with guys and not showing you the same consideration she expects. Don't play games... just tell her how you feel... honestly. Maybe she's just trying to make you jealous. Ask her why she is acting this way. Communication is the key. No games. Just honesty.
2006-12-17 03:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by DawnRenee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your girl likes attention that's what she's getting from the other guys, now you can't do what she does, because it's for a whole different reason. plus women don't trust a man like they trust themselves she can trust herself with the guys an know how for to go, but you are doing it for a whole nother reason, an things might get out of hand because most of you are weak when it comes to women. the girls just having fun.
2006-12-17 04:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust her, because girl's have different feelings and feel the need to have more attention than guys. She's worried that you might like another girl. She's probably just testing you to see how much you care for her.
2006-12-17 03:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by resaml 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Drop the ho dude before u lose your dignity, and you will lose it with her. Dont be a Pwussy
2006-12-17 03:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by handsome_muscles 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she iz just a big flirt wit everybody... She cnt help it. i'm not sayin its right that she can do it but you cnt
But let me ask you a question... do you let her?
2006-12-17 03:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
um that would be for you to tell her that it's not ok, ask her how she would feel if you where doing that :) :) :)
2006-12-17 03:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋