There is this girl at school, one which I do ot find atractive at all, who keeps trying to flirt with me, but i always ignore her. Then when I try to ignore her, she does it in a more humilliating mannor. Then my other friends laugh at me and I get humiliated. Please Help!!!!!
2006-12-16 19:32:51 · 12 answers · asked by Nathan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry i was once like this to a guy before but just tell her to her face that you dont like her and yea its hard for her and you but how else is she gonna know for real?
shell get over it in like the next week. promise
2006-12-16 19:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid being in her presence, and go to the school guidance counselor. If going alone doesn't give you a solution, ask for a meeting where she is present & can be helped to come to a peaceful solution.
She is getting away with this due to no accountability, which is one of the reasons your G.C. is there.
This is a garbage way to treat someone, and you don't need to let her cause you to dread school & generally humiliate & make you miserable just because she is immature & likely a bit whacked.
Take care of yourself now, and get it to end for a better remainder of the school year.
I'll bet this spoiled little miss is accustomed to getting her own way at home, and so comes to school with a chip on her shoulder, ready to take it out on anybody who refuses her desires.
You must be quite a catch in order for her to not let this drop already, remember that :)
2006-12-17 03:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dropping a girl is as easy as hooking up to one.
to drop a girl, the method you're using will definitely back-fire. ignoring a girl will cause mega damage because, by ignoring her, you'll make her desperate to strike a conversation with you and she wouldn't mind doing anything to catch your attention. that's the reason why she ends up humiliating you in public.
you have 2 suggestions
one : pick up your phone and call her up and tell her that you want to break up. make sure you're not too harsh or she might build up hatred for you and for all you know, she'll take revenge. believe me, you wouldn't want to have a girl with enough rage to stab you when you turn around behind you. make it absolutely clear to her that it just won't work out.
two : you could be really mean and kiss another girl when she's walking pass you. that way, she'll be crystal clear and she would definitely find someone else to get back at you.
that's it!
i hope i helped you with my suggestions!
2006-12-17 03:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by drool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become aggressive with her in a suggestive manner. Pretend to be interested and set up a public date then don't show up. Tell a friend prior, one who wont spill the beans.quit being an emotional pwussy.
2006-12-17 03:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by handsome_muscles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She really needs to grow up. Thats the kind of thing a 3 year old does when shes pretending to get married. If this is really disturbing you, then she needs to know. If it hurts her, then dont feel too bad, she is the one who is embarrasing you anyway.
2006-12-17 03:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by silva_coin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that, although she certainly would be attractive to most guys, she's just not your type, and you really aren't feeling any connection.
Do be as nice as possible.
She was probably someone we encouraged here a few days ago to pursue you!!! LOL
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-17 03:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start flirting with another girl in class or wherever in her view cuz then if she does anything she gets humiliated so she'll stop and then move on after a minute, girls aren't that complex. i hate that though i feel your pain bra
2006-12-17 03:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Dodge 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really don't like her then you need to do one of two things; either distance yourself from her (and I mean DISTANCE) or you tell her straight up that..."hey...thanks, but I only consider you a friend." That's your answer my man.
2006-12-17 03:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to stop, tell her you dont like her, dont ignore her. She doesnt know that you dont like her
2006-12-17 03:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, try pulling her to the side and saying, LOOK, I DON'T LIKE YOU AND I NEVER WILL SO JUST LET IT GO, BUT WE CAN STILL BE FRIENDS. So please stop flirting with me!!
2006-12-17 03:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by resaml 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋