I've tried to bathe with my wife, giving her massages, pleasure her orally, Giving her compliments, and asked her what she wants, but she doesnt seem to want to touch me, hug me, and she doesn't kiss me any more. In the begining I used to get worn out with all the sex we were having, and she used to love it. She used to come multiple times(fact). But if I even look at another girl she goes bananas. This has going on for like 6-12 months now maybe more.
2006-12-16 19:27:05 · 15 answers · asked by fire51104 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lose weight for one. You probably put on 30 lbs since you got married and look like a slob, change your colonge. Try something new to spark the old flames, think about the reasons she fell in love with you and pull your head out of your *** and start doing something. It sounds like she is getting her affection elsewhere. You better do something quick or shes gone like Kobe on a breakaway dunk.
2006-12-16 19:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Chance G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay it sounds like she is stress and for some reason feels very insecure about her self... compliments are not helping her either so I will recommend that you take her away from the house, if you have kids ( that might be a possibility why she is stress) get a baby sitter,Take her out for dinner a very romantics and thoughtful dinner and get a room some where, remind her why you fell in love with her in the first place. This is actually something that women need to hear, we all have this thoughts in our heads when we are in a relationship ( why is he with me?... Does he still love me?.. am I enough for him?.) You need to remind her WHY, and by taking her out completely out of the environment that you too have created in the house it will ease her mind and she can think more clearly in what is happening NOW with you in front of her. If this does not work don't be afraid of the though that maybe you guys need marriage counseling. Marriage is something that is not easy for allot of people and you guys wont are not the only ones with similar problems.... I hope this works out for you good luck
2006-12-17 03:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by jayden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this. Here's some excellent advice from a woman who knows.
GET IN SHAPE! There's nothing more sexy than a confident man. Ask anyone. You can look like one of the monkeys on that movie Congo, but if you think you are the hottest thing in the world your body secretes it, and your woman feels those vibes. It also couldn't hurt to wisper to her when you're having sex. If you want more details, just emial me
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2006-12-17 03:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rochelle B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is having issues and only will you know how to deal them by if you know what they are. You need to sit down and talk to her, try to be calm, loving, in an atmosphere that doesnt leave her feeling that she is being attacked or you are starting a fight. tell her honestly you miss her touch, if she loves you, she will tell you what has changed, what is on her mind and you can work on it together and get back to the place you once were.
2006-12-17 03:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extreme jealousy, coupled with lack of desire for a long-time mate sounds to me like she's either cheating on you, or has cheated.
This, however, is only conjecture based upon experience.
When people cheat, they tend to project that upon their partner, frequently becoming improperly jealous, or making absurd accusations.
I would have a long talk with her about how she has been acting, and the possible reasons, and consequences.
2006-12-17 03:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a puss you need to grab your balls and show her you got a pair. ....put her in her place and tell her there are going to be big changes, your not putting up with it anymore. from experience after you have been married so long you just have to stand up and put a woman in her place...thats what they all want and after you doi it everything gets better...but putting her in her place doesnt mean disrespecting her
2006-12-17 03:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by camden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a plunger to get it out of the crapper!
2006-12-17 03:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
go work out. Try looking good for your woman
2006-12-17 03:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by arkainisofphoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should talk to her and not just tring to do her or what ever,I'm not saying try to just be friends,just take it slowly.
p.s if that dosen't work then ask me I'll think up something elas
2006-12-17 03:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tenkay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my book, anything after 6 months, you have a right to go get yours, if you know what I mean.
2006-12-17 03:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋