I am a college student in abroad and now I have a foreign boyfriend. He is very rich boy, and he is the only child in his family. One time he told me that he is not romantic at all. But I sometimes I want to romantic, u know just to lighten up the relationship. It's been 6 months and I still feel i don't really like him, at first he is not my type of guy, and we can't communicate well becuase of language barrier. The first time we tried to have sex, he couldn't find my clits. I am still virgin, and after that he and I felt so uncomfortable and embarassed. In addition, he gets freaked out from his parents when I call him, when he is at home. At first, he used to tell me all about our beautiful future, and then he just freaks out when I try to talk to him when he is at home, he is such a babyboy.
However the situation is very complicated. I really don't know what to do. I think like the other guy, who doesn't even know me.
Do u think my boyfriend is a loser? Should I break up with him
2006-12-16 19:25:47 · 4 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I think you should break up with him. Life is too short to live it being miserable. Don't waste one more minute being with someone who cannot make you as happy as you diserve to be.
You need to repsect yourself enough to understand that you can do a WHOLE lot better than this guy who doesn't seem to put you or your needs first...
I hope this helps you and good luck to you!
2006-12-16 19:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Language, culture, human sexuality, romance...these are major barriers in the scenario you have presented. I don't think he is a loser, but he is not for you. These 4 things are essential and not something you can compromise on. You can't change him. Move on.
2006-12-16 19:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that he is a loser. Maybe, he doesnt have the experience yet. Maybe he feel sorry because he thinks that he's kinda stupid. Why dont know you teach him?
2006-12-16 19:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by dragon_2877 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already don't like him and he lives in another country, I think the answer is pretty much a no-brainer. Go for someone you like and who lives closer! :)
2006-12-16 19:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋