I need your advise please. I met this guy at university, he was interested in me and I told him from the start that now I'm not ready for a relatioship (even though I like him) but I'm happy to stay as friends, he was ok with that. After we finish uni we agreed to see each other just for a CATCH UP, but he kept on saying it's a date, so on the second date he kissed me.
I didn't expect him to kiss me so I didn't kiss him back and what I did I turned my face to the other side so he apologised and said he won't do it again. After that I felt really really bad, because I like him alot and I know I shouldn't have reacted that way but at the same time I know it wasn't a date. To tell you the truth I would love to kiss him but...
What should I do now? he said he won't do it again? should I kiss him next time I see him or what? PLEASE ADVISE. Thanks
2006-12-16 19:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by HeCallsMeCute 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like him like that clairify you would like to go on an official date, wait til he asks you out (cuz that's the guys job) then on the date give him an innocent peck on the lips. this says it's okay to kiss me now and this is a date which will make him feel good. if you don't like him like that don't boycott him just continue to say you guys are friends ex. "you're such a good friend", guys can only take an ego check like that once per girl so unless he's sleezy he won't try again unless you say otherwise. that was his bad though, sounds like he likes you a lot
2006-12-16 19:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Dodge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the vibe i'm getting. i have not had a first date in a lengthy time period. i'm rather constructive I did kiss him on the first date even though it did not go any more desirable. Now that i'm older, wiser and could be more desirable determined if there have been someone to pass on a first date with, i'd probable go each of how.
2016-10-18 09:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . if you really like him, kiss him next time you go out. If there is a next time. He isn't looking for a "friend", he's looking for a gf. If he has any sense he will leave you alone and not go after you for another beating.
I have to ask, do you REALLY like him? Think of the most attractive male celebrity you can think of. If HE wanted to go out with you, wouldn't you be ready for a relationship then? I think he's wasting his time on you. If you really liked him, you would MAKE time for a relationship. You found time to go out with him on a "non-date," right? Well, real dates take almost the same amount of time. So if you like him, give it a try. Otherwise, tell him you don't want to date him. If I were him, I would assume you don't want to date me. Next! Get the drift?
Good night!
2006-12-16 19:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case I would say kiss him when the moment is right again. Just go for it and after tell him that you want to. Otherwise you may confuse him,..
2006-12-16 19:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kissed you and you backed away but you like him it was probably out of nervousness more than anything else. If you like him but you turned away once he probably won't try again. Your up to bat this time if you want anything to happen. Good luck.
2006-12-16 19:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Chance G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly that! that u werent expecting to receive a kiss from him. yes you should kiss him next time you see him, this will let him know that u like him and help him feelp better after you crushed his ego
2006-12-16 19:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want and are you ready for a relationship? Make up your mind, then go ahead. I mean that. Going on without making up your mind isn't quite fair to either of you.
2006-12-16 19:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two definitely have CHEMISTRY and I guess, just tell him how you feel, and maybe next time you can kiss him, and say I'm sorry, but now I'm ready.
2006-12-16 19:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by resaml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!
typical girl, doesnt know what she wants.
way to confuse the guy u like.
And, Yes.
u messed up.
He put himself out there. and got shot down like a black hawk. Now its your turn to take the Fire.
You:"Do u want to kiss me"
Him: "Uumm..................."
YOU:"Shut up and Kiss me"
[You both passionatly kiss]
later.
2006-12-16 19:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by roberto3331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl life is to short to make excuses... If you like him ( and he obviously like you) all you need to do is follow your hearth... is better than killing your self later thinking what if.... LIVE YOUR LIFE AND NEVER SAY NO TO THE POSSIBILITY OF LOVE.
2006-12-16 19:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by jayden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋