i want to get to know him better but all we've said are hi and bye. i think he and i are quite shy. at least to me anyways. he can talk to other guys and girls so why's he treating me differently? is it because we don't know each other all that well? he doesn't know my friend well either but they can talk normally.
2006-12-16 19:13:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's acting like that... then it prolly means he likes you, but he's just too shy to talk to you normally like he can to others..... put yourself up to him more and try to make him feel comfortable..... if you really like this guy, then what is there to loose, at least try to put yourself up to him and out there more. Try to find out more about him as well, the more things you two find out you have in common, then the easier it will be to hold a conversation. But if nothing works, then hey, he's prolly just wanting you to give it up to him..... he is a guy ya know
2006-12-16 19:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im having the same problem with a guy! I think he's trying to figure out his feelings for you. I know my guy thinks we have a lot in common...he pointed those out to me before he went all quiet. I think he sensed he was falling and began to check his behavior. Though he still stares and eavesdrops on all my conversations, esp. with men. And he hates it when men are talking to me. His face becomes a frown, though he doesnt express it. He thinks Im flirtatious with men...I do joke and laugh a lot but its in good jest. I dont like anyone else...hehe
2006-12-17 03:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does like you, but is shy and waiting for you to come out to him. I'd suggest that you hang out with his friends more, and get the 411 on him. That way you'll be better friends with his friends and you'll know more about him, to ask him out. Also you'll be able to hang out with him more, so that he feels more comfortable around you.
2006-12-17 03:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by resaml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a guys normal defense mechanism kicking in. we know if we lower our defenses we can be hurt. that is why it takes guys more time to "come around" then it does for the ladies. it will just take a little time for him to be comfortable around with you, then i am sure he will talk to you just as he does everyone else.
2006-12-17 03:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he treats you differently from everyone else he probably likes you. just put yourself out there and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime
2006-12-17 03:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by SoItGoes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep trying. He'll warm up eventually. Good luck!
2006-12-17 03:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason he is probably not really talking to you is because he probably likes you. this has happened to me with this one girl.
2006-12-17 03:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by whiteandnerdy567 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋