My boyfriend cheated on me. But when i found out he said that, he can,t decided between me and that other girl because he likes both. But i left him. Now he says he is gulity and want me back in his life.When i caugh him, he left the other girl for me.What should i do. i truly love him, but can't trust him. Plzz help me.
2006-12-16 19:10:07 · 22 answers · asked by cute_angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you love him, then forgive him. however, if you find out that he has cheated more than once, give him a damn swirly for being an a$$. on another note, when someone says he/she likes both, they actually like neither. do what you feel is right and good luck.
2006-12-16 19:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Fey Lin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I would not go back to him, but that is just me.
Speaking from experience, if you can't trust the guy than your relationship is probably not going to work, even if you are in love with him, because when ever you get into a fight the subject of him cheating will most likely always come up.
You have a 50/50 chance that he may or may not cheat again.
Just take some time to yourself to really think about it and go with what you feel is the best solution, even if it may be the hardest. Chances are if you go with your gut feeling than you are usually right. Also, you might want to console in a good, trustworthy friend or family just to get a second opinion.
I hope this helps and good luck.
2006-12-17 03:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by lnakoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He obviously needs more time to find out what it is he really wants. If he wanted to be with you 1.) he wouldnt have cheated and 2.) he wouldnt have picked the other girl. It will hurt for a while, but you will be better off in the long run!!!
2006-12-17 03:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already did the right thing, if you go back to him then he will think its ok to cheat on you, once a cheat always a cheat, yeah he wants you back? pfffffff whatever!!! until the next girl comes along! with out trust there's no love and without love there's no trust.. don't fall for his crap.. he knew what he was doing when he cheated on you, and i bet at that time you were the last one he was thinking about.. u see he wanted to sample the cake, and it wasn't as good as yours. i can picture this guy, telling you this, i cant decide which of you i like, i feel guilty i need you back, boo hooooo cry me a river... how pathetic.. its your choice. but if you take him back ur setting yourself up remember you said the key words (cant trust him!!!!)
2006-12-17 03:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really love someone, then TRUST is the most important thing in an relationship, and if my boyfriend confessed and left the other girl for me, then he really loves u, so go back to him, because he really likes you, so don't do anything that u feel like later you'll regret it.
2006-12-17 03:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by resaml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - don't take him back. He couldn't decide at first because he liked you both - now all of a sudden he doesn't like her? Did she dump him too and now he doesn't have either one of you?
You don't trust him because he gave you a reason NOT to trust him. That mistrust you feel is an instinct - trust yourself that you did the right thing.
2006-12-17 03:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is really hard to get back but u know he left that girl for u and i think that u should give him another chance. Everyone should get a 2nd chance. yea its probably really hard to trust him but sometime ur trust will slowly come back n u can start trustin him again and yea u really love him too
2006-12-17 03:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Do not go back to him. Guys don't change. Once a cheater always a cheater.
True, he may like you, but not enough to stop seeing other girls. He'll always have his eyes open, waiting for something better to walk by.
2006-12-17 03:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him, then you're relationship will never be the same. It may be better to forget about him and find someone worthy of your love.
2006-12-17 03:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no trust anymore love won't survive better to start fresh elsewhere with someone else. After all if he had done it once he can do it again.
2006-12-17 03:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Dominique Saint Claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋