My friend told me tonight that she is dating a guy that I like. She knew that I asked this guy out and he stood me up. The thing that kills me is that she was there waiting with me on the day that he and I were supposed to hook up. She knew I was embarrassed and sad over it. Now, she and he are dating. I don't know what to think!.
2006-12-16 18:39:19 · 15 answers · asked by Crizzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I probably would not still be friends with someone like that. Good night!
2006-12-16 18:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I read the question I thought why can't people realize that they can't claim a guy, if he likes your friend or choose her at first that's cool.
But then I read that your friend knew you not only liked this guy but asked him out and stood with you as he "stood" you up. This is wrong. She is not your friend and you must not continue any kind of friendship with her. Explain to her if you like or if she ask that you are just not comfortable being friends with somebody who will do this to you and find a new friend.
2006-12-16 18:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she ain't no friend....she knew you liked this guy and it never occurred to her that you would be rightly pissed about it?.....please some people think their the only ones with feelings....i suggest you tell her up front how you feel about this, maybe without you being too confrontational, but be direct about it and after you have made your piece plain.....distance yourself from her as a friend....and if ever things go wrong between them don't ever be the shoulder for her to cry on......good luck.
2006-12-16 19:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly lady.. that is time to 'woman-up' your self and strive against for what you opt for. Get on the table... get all katty.. and for once and for all... tell your buddy to close the hell up and kiss your perfect guy buddy on the lips. believe me, you'll seize him off by technique of wonder. both you may take a seat right here and mope... or you may take the risks and discover out how this can flow the not undemanding way. Uh... thinking that you're going to attempt this... bear in mind that some issues are not gonna finally end up rather. yet what are you able to do in lifestyles? rather? "you'd be as mad as a mad dogs on the way issues went. you should swear, curse the fates, yet at the same time as it contains the finished, you may enable flow." it truly is both letting flow or taking hazards. it is your call... merely be prepared for the outcomes.
2016-11-26 23:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she backstabbed you and doesn't respect you or your friendship. It'd be different if y'all were acquaintances, but if you are really good friends, I don't understand why she would go out with the guy that you really like and who also stood you up.
Get over both of them, you deserve better. Good luck and God bless! :)
2006-12-16 18:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go, it could have just been a crush, but if it is a good friend, dont f@&k somthing like that up, good friends kick *** and to let somthing like that get between you would be horrible, let it go. If it was somebody you didnt really care for, then id say screw them, cuz im sure you have way better friends than that!! Good luck!!
2006-12-16 18:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Goes Without Saying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should still be friends with her. think about how long you really think you two would have gone out????? then think about how long you and your girlfriend have been friends. stay friend dont let a guy get between the two of you. just go andfind a new guy who need or wants someone that would rather be with someone else... think about it! good luck
2006-12-16 18:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by cali_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend was dating him when you ask him out on a date.She was there 2 make sure he didn't show up. With a friend like that i woundn't want as a enemy.She no friend of yours because she woundn't be dating him.
2006-12-16 19:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably wouldn't. I mean, if I was your friend, I would def talk to you first before going out with that loser. If she was my close friend, I'd definitely start distancing myself from her.
I dunno what she is thinking. How could she accept him after what he did to you?
2006-12-16 18:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Connie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Sheniqua with friends like that you don't need any enemies.
2006-12-16 18:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋