I am very introverted and am 23 years old.....but yet I feel nowhere strong enough to become extroverted but dont want to be lonely all my life.....what do i dO?
2006-12-16 18:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by Leslie S 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You don't need to be extroverted to make friends and get a boyfriend. I get my boyfriends through the internet. I make friends at my jobs. It takes about 6 months for me to get to know a person at work well enough to call them a friend, because I'm shy. I'm not nearly as shy on the internet, and I've met both my ex and my current boyfriend online. The ex was through a personal ad, the current one was on a general interest forum.
2006-12-16 18:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by T.M.Y. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for something you do have the strength to change, that may take some effort but will probably be worthwhile. Something meaningful, but not impossible. Consciously choose to be positive about yourself, learn to recognize and avoid negativity. Remember that what others think of you may be better than what you think of yourself. Seek opportunities to interact. If you lack the strength for this, and discussing it with friends doesn't help, or you feel your efforts continue to fall short, talk to a professional counselor (contact your crisis centre if you need a referral). In doing so, stay focused on your objectives - if they aren't helping, find someone else. All the best!
2006-12-16 19:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Eclectic_N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Know just how you feel. I was a Introvert. Threw work I've learned to be more sociable, at least with the people I work with. Trust is another Issue though. So I know what It's like to be alone. Just remember If you keep doing the same things in your life you will always see the same results, and good luck.
Try being more sociable with one or two people at a time.
:-)
P.S. You dont have to be sociable to be in a relationship.
2006-12-16 18:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dustin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at your life in a positive way.I have felt lonely, but whenever I think about my friends or family members I just feel nice. No need to change your attitude or life, change the way you look your life. If you see the good things, You will know how wonderful it is!
2006-12-16 18:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ana C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonely has nothing to do with your social tendency. You're lonely because you long for company, and haven't learned to be alone, which is enjoyable.
2006-12-16 18:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Pray For God to help you, to guide you, and help you meet the right one.
2006-12-16 21:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU R THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN ANSWER THAT QUESTION. BECAUSE YOU R THE ONLY ONE THAT HAS TO LIVE YOUR LIFE.DO SOME SOUL SEARCHING.
2006-12-16 18:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by torreums2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-16 19:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by billbowlerski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋