2006-12-16 18:31:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be honest with him because you did something wrong and it shouldn't go unpunished. If you tell him right away and explain why you did it (and don't use a poor excuse like you were drunk and don't blame it on him) he'll either appreciate your honesty, be pissed for a while and you'll have to work hard at getting his trust back OR he'll send you packing.
You dished it out, now you've gotta take it. Sorry!
2006-12-16 18:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no single answer. If you love your boyfriend and think you made a mistake, come totally honest with him and work it out with a counselor. If you wish to continue going around behind his back, be very discreet, always pay in cash, don't make calls on any phone but a payphone or a cell, and never go anywhere with your lover that either your friends or your boyfriend's friends might recognize you.
2006-12-21 01:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by hottie_spaniard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him badly try to make him stay with u!! but u have cheated on him and this shows u dont love him so much so let him go and u ur slef find a more interesting guy with who u can have more amusing relationship i think a boy on whom u chewat is like a spilt milk!!! u know what i mean so that was a mistake but it has been done so let it be come what may u ll find a nother guy and this time ull behave more sensibly
2006-12-17 02:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by ...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with yourself First . Why did you cheat on him ? This will hurt but its the Truth If you have no respect for yourself then you will have no respect for others. Hence the cheating. If you want to play the field then play it but don't tie yourself down with one guy. Respect yourself to not be in a situation to cheat meaning be intently involved with one guy and respect him by not drawing him into it by thinking you are his steady girlfriend.
2006-12-17 02:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kdid49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think you shud do? if you think you shud tell him the truth go ahead and then if he says he is going to leave you....... well atleast he knows that u cheated on him and then you can stay with the other guy and if you wanna keep a secret do so but remeber, every false has a limited life and he will come to know from somewhere else and then he'll be more mad!!!!
its entirely upto you! good luck from my side!
2006-12-17 02:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by kinjal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more information to answer this question.
I guess does he know that you cheated? If not let sleeping dogs lie. Unless you want the relationship to end.
I cannot answer thoroughly because you have not supplied enough information.
Good Luck!
2006-12-17 02:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Meko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i have 2 say is do un 2 other as u would want them 2 do 2 u.
2006-12-17 02:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by christina b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm you tell him. if you want to have anything with him you have to be able to talk about everything. if you cant tell him something like this i dont believe you should be going out with him. i think if hes a smart guy he will respect the fact that you went to him and told him the truth but then yes be pissed or hurt. then talk to him about how to fix it. dont think he'll just be fine you will have to work at getting him back and to trust you. good luck!!
2006-12-17 02:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by cali_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont keep that from him. lying is just as bad if not worse than cheating on him. and dont drag it out....you've already hurt him by doing it dont make him wait for the news
2006-12-17 02:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the civil thing and tell him. If he's willing to keep you, you're a very lucky girl. If not, hopefully you learned your lesson.
2006-12-17 02:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋