Why is it that a guy can be a in a relationship for 2 years, everything is great, makin plans together for the future, then suddenly decide he needs to be alone? I mean sudden as in one day! he went to his parents house and says he was talkin to his dad when he realised it was for the best...?
2006-12-16 18:30:53 · 10 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow!! I am sorry that happened to ya....I know that had to hurt.....
It sounds like your "Man" may really be only a "boy". In one day he puts his Daddy's opinion above yours?????? Did I read that right??
Without knowing all the details,it sounds like you may have dodged a bullet........something else is going on here and whatever it is..it proves he is not ready to go forward......
2006-12-16 18:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men realize that women are evil and they should avoid moving in with a female. Or they never really were happy and have being banging somebody else and are moving in with her. Or the man is scared to put his neck in the noose of living with a woman and figures it is best to stay single for a little longer. But i would bet that there is something that has been there longer than one day and you just don't know what it is or you just don't get it.
2006-12-17 02:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by jay s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sweetie, but he met someone else. He knows that the new girl is shaddy. So, he wants you to think that he needs time to himself.
So, by saying, he wants to be alone, he could then date this girl.
And if things go good, he will stay with her.
if not, then he has u as the backup. cuz u will be waiting for him, cuz u think he just needs time to himself.
This is the REAL WORLD OF DATING.
2006-12-17 02:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by roberto3331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, what seemed a spontaneous event to you, had been culminating for a while; only he did not tell you his feelings when he first had them. If he is a young man, then this is very normal, as he is in a stage in his life where he is trying to figure out his priorities.
2006-12-17 02:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His dad obviously had something to do with you two spending less time together. So confront your bf and talk to him. And make sure it's his thoughts and not his dad's.
2006-12-17 02:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by egethepege 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are idiots and dont know what the heck they want in life and there are those who do and always come up last in the race
2006-12-17 02:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by glock310 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. Doesn't sound like normal behavior to me. Good luck!
2006-12-17 02:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't understand it. But it is probably time to move on.
2006-12-17 02:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it was just attraction and not love and atrraction can last fro whole life too wat of 2 yrs
like fans are attracted by hema malini even now when theyand she have become old but that is not love
2006-12-17 02:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by aakash b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are fickle
2006-12-17 02:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋