I really dont know what to do anymore?

Question

all the relationships i've been in, in the past year, have all been complete disasters.. i've failed suicide twice and well all my girlfriends have cheated on me when all i did was trust, love, and care for them... what is wrong with me?

Answer 1

nothing is wrong with you. buy a punching bag and then when you get angry go out and punch it until you are content. Dont try to kill yourself, that generally a bad thing. and with the depression and crap, suck it up, dont act depressed and feel sorry for yourself because some girls cheated on you, they were just the kind of girls who take joy in taking guys hearts and then stabbing them to do the same to another person. just wait, one of these days the right girl will come for you.

Answer 2

First of all, suicide is not the way to go. So please quit with the attempts and get some councelling or something. You can't give any of your loving caring personality to the world if you are not here to share it.

You saying that tells me that you lack confidence and have self image problems which is probably something you need to work on before trying to attempt any more relationships. As these problems usually come back to bite you in the butt and may cause frustration to your future partners.

Love comes when you least expect it, when you try too hard to find it then you usually make poor decisions and choose anyone who shows the slightest interest even if there intentions are not completely honest.

Basically, learn to love yourself, and others will love you for who you are too.

Answer 3

Perhaps you should not worry so much about having a relationship. Attempted suicide over a failed relationship truly does not make sense. I like the fact that you said that you trusted, loved and cared for your girlfriends, but I hope that you didn't focus every minute of every day worrying and thinking about them. Perhaps you should do something for yourself to learn to care for yourself. If you're in school, join a club. Or join a gym, an art class, whatever.
Lastly, there isn't anything wrong with you. You simply need to refocus your energies elsewhere, and remember that you are worth much more than suicide.
A relationship needs two healthy people contributing to it to make one healthy relationship...not two people forgetting whom they are to become one person.

Answer 4

I feel ya bro. Girls are like that. Just wait til the right one comes around, and for the time being, don't let things bug you so much you can't move along. Make goals for yourself that are outside of having a good relationship. I am not trying to tell you what to do, but I just want you to find yourself before you go out there again in attempt to find another *****!

Time is a valuable thing

Answer 5

first of all, no woman is worth ending your life over (at least the ones you've had) Maybe you can give up your life for your wife and kids but not meaningless people like what you've had. You've gone through alot of sad disappointments and failed relationships so it's understandable. You should focus on other things to get your mind off of your past. Keep your hopes up. Those girls are probably cheating on their other relationships as well so don't feel like you are the only one that went through it.

Answer 6

Sounds like a pretty common occurence. Girls do that to everyone. It's nothing to get worked up over. Depends on your age. High school girls (and college girls to some extent) would rather be with an asshole than a gentleman. Why? I have no idea. But don't be an *** just to get women. Be yourself and you will eventually meet the right woman for you. And don't try to kill yourself anymore, you won't meet any babes that way, they don't let you do that at the psych ward.

Answer 7

Nothing wrong with you as a person you just pick the wrong girlfriends. My parents were a big believer in that there is someone for everyone and that, that someone will come along when you least expecting it. So dont rush into relationships take your time and im sure you will find your perfect soul mate. x

Answer 8

What is wrong with you? That's a loaded question,dude!

I do not know your specifics,but I think the first thing to do would be to get some help for those suicidal tendencies. It could be that life has just kicked you around or you might have a chemical imbalance in your head..(or both).

As far as those girls....sounds like you need to set your standards a bit higher.

Check out my sources below for further help.........and please don't try to kill yourself again......That might just be a permanent answer to a temporary problem.....

Answer 9

Sounds to me like you need to come to love and know yourself before you seek a woman to love and know. If you don't value your own self and seek to determine your value through the emotions of a woman in a dating scenario . . . than you are not being responsible of your own heart or anothers. My advice...bench yourself from dating...do some inner work...come to know your own value through the avenues of therapy, reading self-help books, valued trusted opinions of others. Past relationships have been ' disasters ' as you phrased it because you are a 'ship with a hole in the bottom ' seeking refuge...a disaster is bound to occur. Heal / patch the ' hole ' in your own self...then go out there again and date responsibly and with value to anothers heart that you will be touching.

Answer 10

This is a emotional situation.

It sounds like you are looking to hard, and that you love to hard. I would have to honestly say that you need to slow down, and get to know these women before fully committing yourself into these situations.

I personally think that no man/woman is worthy of you attempting to take your life. From reading your message it sounds like you are a nice guy with good qualities.

You just need to meet women for a while and while "just dating" you will find that female that wants to be with you and only you.

Try not to take this issue to the heart. Just relax, and have confidence in yourself, and the woman of your dreams will come to you.