ok i am not ready to commit in a real relationship.
why do i keep getting to know ladies who are obesssed just because we had sex?? i mean i already clear told dem this is nothing but just sex but i even had some who found out my number and keeps calling me ..
only god knows if i have a stalker out dere!! how do i get rid of these people
2006-12-16 18:10:03 · 4 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you keep attracting these types????
I guess you just have to be a little more careful. Sleeping around has consequences.
And most women cannot just "sleep around." Most of us are emotional and get attached (not if it is just a one-night stand but if it is a frequent sexual relationship).
You get rid of these people by watching who you sleep with.
Can't have your cake and eat it too, Cowboy.
2006-12-16 18:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why am I not surprised that a player like you doesn't understand one bit about girl's emotions. If a girl would have sex with you, 1) you're a lucky man, and 2) there's definitely something they like about you. But right after you guys have a sexual relationship, you turn her away, not because theres something wrong with her, but because you have a problem with being serious.
2006-12-17 02:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by lucstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not surprised....girls are willing to have sex with you either because they like you or they simply want you....don't think that they won't get emotionally attached....besides having sex with such women is putting yourself and the lady down....don't be a player...its not worth it...wait till you are ready to commit and find the right person...and you're problems will be gone.
2006-12-17 08:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by djforever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're going about things the wrong way for starters! you shouldn't be having sex with anyone you're not married to. that is just totally disrespecting yourself and the girls you're having sex with. and don't get me wrong, they're just as much at fault as you are. sex is something to be shared between a husband and his wife only. and since it seems that sex is the basis for your problem, if you'll just stop having it with these crazy women, you won't have any more problems!
Good Luck!
2006-12-17 02:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋