we have been together for 6 months and i feel really bad bacause im a super jealous guy, and i need to get her somthing for christmas that will show her that im sorry and how i really feel about her, and i dont htink that just a kiss hug and flowers will do it?! HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-16 18:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by Goes Without Saying 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I need to add more, she went to a basketball game with my bestfriend to watch his girlfriend, and i knew nothing about it, I got super pissed, and she threw it all on me, I know there is nothing goin on but i still got pissed and i feel bad now im mad a him and her. I dont want to make a huge commitment because im still trying to make my music career and there will be over 1500 miles distance, but I dont wanna screw it up because of this.
2006-12-16 18:14:10 · update #1
An apology. Show her you really care with something personal. Get her what she really wants. Something that only you know what she appreciates.
2006-12-16 18:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by 5ive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you feel about her ? Extreme jealously is not a good thing in a relationship. It under means the most important thing for a good relationship, Trust. Jealously also shows a lack of self confidence on your part. You do admit it and realize your fault and mistake which gives you a glowing chance in my eyes. Now the first thing is to tell her your sorry for your jealously and your working on it. You may care for her more than you realize and that may be why you reacted with jealousy. Save the ring for Valentines Day get over this hump and see how the holidays go. Buy her a very nice piece of jewelry a tennis bracelet for example. But nothing will be as effective as being a man and owning up to your faults the gift is just icing on the cake.
2006-12-16 18:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kdid49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a super jealous guy, and if you believe this is the woman for you, I would let your GF know that you're seeking help because you realized that you're very insecure and want to know the reasons why.
I've been with your profiled type and if you don't get help and get answers as to the 'why' you behave the way you do and reasons due to the family you grew up in -- believe me, without help, you'll never change and hugs, kisses and flowers will only cut it for a woman that grew up the way you did -- ABUSED IN SOME WAY OR ANOTHER!
If you're young, you're blind -- we all are or were. Please consider this advise from both someone who's been there and truly wants you to overcome this problem. Believe me when I say, if you don't do it now, you'll be a self-hating, angry man for the rest of your life. You'll be in my prayers.
2006-12-16 18:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by swan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you had a fight with your girlfriend. I'm guessing it ahs to do with your jealousy. Admitting it is a good first step. Now to win her back. Two ways to approach it. You can shower her with so much romantic stuff that she'll want you back. Or you can apply humor.
To apply humor, give her a certificate so that she can have a date with any guy and you won't be jealous. This shows that you can handle your jealousy and have a sense of humor. To be romantic, serenade her or compose some poetry. Speak from the heart and speak the truth. Good luck in winning her back.
2006-12-16 18:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a teddy bear holding one of the Christmas cards that you can record your own voice in. Say something sincere, apologetic, and confirming that you will TRY to stop being jealous, but you'll need her help. "Pretend it's the teddy bear talking"
Something like that . . . oh yea, a gold bracelet never hurts either.
2006-12-16 18:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself counselling lessons and give her a promise note for a dinner out in ten weeks, ie after you have finished the counselling, that will show her you mean it when you say "Im gonna change"!
2006-12-16 18:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by askauntkt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her the Nintendo Wii, there I solved the problem dam im a genius.
2006-12-16 18:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her a diamond no woman can resist a diamond especially if it has a ring attached to it lol ya just say its a Promise ring and u promise to try and be less jealous
2006-12-16 18:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by ablock 781 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her somewhere that you are sure she'd appreciate and this could be the first chance of tieing you two back together.
2006-12-16 18:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by lucstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for christmas?..get her pregnant..she'll remember the gift forever
2006-12-16 18:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Canadiankid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋