QUESTION FOR MEN (20'S T0 30'S) about being approached by a woman...?

Question

I am in my 30's.

My question is how do you like being approached by a woman?

I don't want to seem too forward or needy, but do like showing interest.

What signals do you like to get from women to show interest?

Answer 1

Sadly, we tend to think any woman who approaches us first and talks to us must be interested in us, so just talk to us.

Answer 2

A guy can be shy or nervous, either generally or when it comes to approaching a girl, and the woman approaching takes a lot of the social anxiety away, and depending on what the woman says and how she says it, makes all the difference in the world. A guy would like a woman to show interest, though depending on what the woman wants, that's what she'll have to portray. example being that if all she wants to do is sleep with him, she can say as she wishes, with no regard. Though if she's interested in dating, she should approach him and start a conversation, and if he's not asking you out after a few minutes, you can say how unusual it is and how you don't wanna seem too forward, needy...etc. but he seems so sweet and you would like to go out with him.

Answer 3

I've never been approached by a woman so I don't know how I'd react. Usually through a spur of the moment conversation, if I see that she is interested in hearing me out, or if I get a sincere smile....I'll have an idea that there is hope to proceed forward.

Answer 4

Show a little interest in what he likes to do. Be curious. Or just open by telling a bad joke, like Hi my name is_____, you wouldn't know it by looking at me but I can run really fast.

Answer 5

Tough question - cause I never know what signs to look for. I'm always dead wrong - I'll find out later that a girl liked me, or one that I thought liked me, didn't.