people make fun of me and call me a dumb blonde and that i look high and just assume im on drugs and im very smart i really don't like it and they also say im not funny and then the girl right next to me said the exact same thing as me and everyone laughed she didnt even put it in her own words she just copied me... SO WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
2006-12-16 17:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by M.C.C. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well,Hun,You can not control other people. You can only control yourself and your reactions. So.........
1) Try not to take other peoples mindless comments personally.
2)Can you find different people to hang out with?
3) Remember that the only people that you should give serious attention to is the ones that really know and love you.
I hope that helps some......Have a Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-16 18:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation a few years ago so here is what you do. Make new friends who like you for you. Be yourself around them. Dont be mean or anything that would give them a bad impression of you. Hang with them instead of those other ppl. All you have to do is make new friends. Simple as that. Just dont try to be funny to hard otherwise you'll be not funny and make yourself look like an a**. Trust me when I say this. Just make new friends. Good for you for not letting this get to you any more and doing something you might regret. We're here whenever you need help.
2006-12-17 02:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by egethepege 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You no what in life people are going 2 say a lot of thing about u some are good and as u see some r bad but u have 2 keep your head up.And the people that are calling u name r not your friend because if they were they wouldn't talk about u like that.Time 2 let them haters go. When people talk about u they are bored with there own life.Misery love company remember that so don't be in there company.If u r not around who r they going 2talk about then.
2006-12-17 02:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by christina b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl who is copying you to copy you right or don't do it at all.
The other thing is to love thyself. Love you some you and who cares what others think of you. They just wish they could look high and fly at the same time.
It's the blonde they are attacking not you. If you don't believe me then change the color of your hair and see how new people treat you. The old ones will still have something to say because they see you as the blonde.
But why would you want to change anything? Just be you!
2006-12-17 02:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like an isolated case in some respects but I would suggest that you separate yourself from those you were with when this situation took place you're obviously not respected and if they make fun of you behind your back as well as in your face then you need to find new associates. find common ground with those who share your interests and your style of humor. remember no one can make you feel bad unless you let them. yo are unique be secure in that.
2006-12-17 02:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ppl ur hangin around with dont seem like friends to me cuz no matter wat real friends will laff at ur jokes no matter how stupid the joke is lol and if u get good grades use that as proof
2006-12-17 02:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by ablock 781 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove them wrong
2006-12-17 02:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Deleted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap her she is a B####. people call me dumb to.
2006-12-17 02:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"SO WHAT SHOULD I DO ?" Stop whinning.
2006-12-17 02:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋