will he understand?

Question

we dated last winter break for a month.he was 21 I was 23.I was his first g/f.I had just gotten out of my first real relationship which was with my bi polar best friend.He was abusive n it screwed me up.we were still hanging out while I went out with George(George knew about him).I also was on the birth control patch.I found out that if it peels that its not working.I had it on my hip and it ALWAYS peeled,so my hormones/emotions were messed up.We made out 4 an half an hour intensely(his first kiss ever).then he was more tense.took me home early.he was confused(mind racing a mile a minute).I huged him goodbye and then kissed him on the lips,he used his tounge and I backed away"I don't think we should do this cuz I don't wanna confuse you" I think that's what made him not call me cuz he thought I was 2 emotional 4 him.I'm not friends with Josh anymore and I am on new b.c pills so I am stalbe and happy and just want to hang out with Geroge again and explain 2 him n c where it goes.

I think once George saw that side of me he was like I can't deal with this but I don't wanna hurt her. I think it scared him off but he was confused too.We saw each other a couple months ago he said he saw how attached I was 2 him n he didn't wanna hurt me n felt real bad.I know he cares 4 me.I think he's an understanding guy.If I explain things 2 him would that change stuff btw us.I called him a month ago on his bday asked 2 hang out over winter break.he said maybe.he is a busy guy but I'm sure he'll make time 4 me like b4.what do u think?

Answer 1

If he really cares about you then he will understand. Just be honest with him and let him tell you how he feels. Then go from there.

Answer 2

Wait 6 months before getting with George or Josh or whoever.

Answer 3

if their just trying to get in your pants are ether of them worth it?

Answer 4

oh the drama!