Can you be in love with someone without them knowing anything about it?

Question

I think I am in love with my best guy friend and yet I think he likes me a lot because he hints all the time.....but is this possible that I could be in love with him?

Answer 1

Absolutely, It happens all the time. Since he’s your best friend talk to him or have one of your friends talk to him..

One approach for your friends intervention might be approaching the guy and say something like.. I see you looking at so and so.. you’re in love with her aren’t you?… I bet his face will light up with a grin from ear to ear!

Best of luck!

Answer 2

You know deep down that you love him. I'm in the same situation as you! I Love my best guy friend as well! Just tell him how you feel, he might not feel the same even tho he does hint around but be glad you have someone like him. Still just talk to him & tell him how you feel. Good Luck!

Answer 3

You might just be projecting your wants of love on your friend who likes. It works out questionably nicely that you maybe in love with your best guy friend who likes. But it is possible that you do love him. Ask yourself this, "What would be like if he left my life right now? And what would I do without him?" If you find yourself unable to answer these questions, it is love.

Answer 4

Yup, sometimes you will get in and out of love easily. But, if you want your relationships to last longer. Better treat him as a good friend.

Answer 5

If it feels something like you're calm around him, or the opposite, you always feel like somthing good is gonna happen, then you might be in love with him. And yes its possible that you could love him without him knowing, because if, as you say her likes you, he might be too woried about how he apears to you, that he doesn't notice your feelings for him. So don't be sad if it feel like unrequited (sp) love, just show him that you love him without tellng him, if you are a bit shy. Talk to him as often as you can, stand next to him, hug him for no good reason, just try to be with him and subtly let him know. theres this girl i like and i know that if she started doing that with me, i'd pick up on her feelings. and if you want to test his reations to you, next time you're in a really good conversation with him, espesially if you two are alone or not in anyone's immediate reange, hold his hand, he might not react the same way around his friends so be careful. But just reach out nicely and hold his hand as you are talking to him, or if you're next to him like on the bus or somthing, lean on his shoulder and put your arm around him, he'll like that you like him enouhg to make contact. I'm sure that if he likes you he might try to pull away but don't let him because he'll stop if he likes you. be nice to him, and he'll figure it out.

well you can do all this if you want him to find out, or you can just keep liking him until he askes you out, which may i warn you, could lead to another girl asking him out first. But its your choice.

Have fun with him while you can, the friendship might not be as involved as a bf/gf relationship, but you'll value the esperience. Just remember to gauge his responses, and make him feel loved. If worst comes to worst, you'll still have learned alot about how guys act around you.

Good Luck.

Answer 6

yes it is possible to have one sided love which make it hard when the love is not returned

Answer 7

oh, of cource!!!!!! i hav almost the exact same situation!!! u definetlycan, that snot even a question! good luck!!

Answer 8

ya like if he is like a like famous like person like ya like duh like you know what i like mean like ya

Answer 9

sure you can

Answer 10

ya of course....................they will know it in future