My elder brother stole the girl of my dreams!!!
see my questions
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtEx0_wCmgNKDcMu2TX6r67sy6IX?qid=20061213083306AAUlo7E
my elder brother has his own apartment but i was stunned as hell to learn that he is going out with my dream girl ..
coz he brought her over to introduce her to the family just yesterday..
i know hes bring soemone over but i didnt expect it to be her ..i feel so sick and mad at him..
for one second i thgt he saw my yahoo answer's question and decided to bring her over..
what am i supposed to do .. should i fite for her and yes i think they are going on serious.. no way she is going to be my future sister in law..
2006-12-16 16:05:44 · 21 answers · asked by Edward H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fyi: i know it sounds dumb but i have notice this lady for like years but did not dare to approach her..
2006-12-16 16:10:35 · update #1
Your brother must be hot, because you're a freaking dreamboat. Why didn't you do something about it all these years? See how easy it was?
2006-12-16 16:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 01:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, this happens all the time. We fall for someone, but they choose someone else. You have to remember that there are two people in every relationship. If she chose your bro that was because he was the one for her. You cannot steal another person's love.
To suggest that she was "yours" is in itself belittling of her. It says that you believed that you owned her, that she had no say in who she loves. To say that your bro stole her says that all it takes is the right words and possessions and a girl will go. Both show a fundamental disrespect for women.
If you cannot be happy for both of them it says that you care only for the fact that you did not get the OBJECT of your desires.
2006-12-16 16:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break them up and make him look like an asshole and yourself look like a gentleman, she'll then dig you and hate him. But do you really want to be with a girl that was ****** by your older brother cause thats kinda sick. I say in instead just go after some girl he likes or your dream girls sister if she has any.
2006-12-16 16:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, it's not your brother's fault! She probably used you to get to him. Be happy for him if he's in love with her too. She's not meant to be with you. You will always have a brother, but divorce is so popular today. You may end up married three or four times before it's over. Your ego is hurt. Don't blame your brother.
2006-12-16 16:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what to say but I don't think you should use the word "steal"... no one can ever get "stolen" from somebody else. But since you two are brothers, you should tactfully express howyou feel to him.. it's your choice if you want to fight for her but remember that she has a mind of her own and a choice, too.
2006-12-16 16:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, i'm totally sorry to hear about that. You gotta let the chips fall where they may, unfortunately. Did your brother know that you loved this girl? If he did, he's not much of a brother.
2006-12-16 16:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by Greg S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sure he stole your dream girl? is this sibling rivalry?.. hey im sure there are a lot of other great girls out there for you.. if they're serious, move on.. dont let your pride take over. If she went out with him, she must like him. Let them be happy. Live and let live.
2006-12-16 16:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by arc* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath, dude. Your brother didn't do anything wrong. You're confusing reality with fantasy and obviously with someone wh's banging mulitple partners, you're not even ready to settle down.This stage will pass. Meanwhile, hope you're protecting yourself sexually from STD and HIV.
2006-12-16 16:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you snooze you loose, you had your chance and you lost out. This is part your fault when it all come downs. Now it's your time to approach her and tell your brother how you feel.
2006-12-16 16:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋