My ex-boyfriend is so obsessed with me. He says he wants to go back out, but i'm afraid. You see, we're really close, like best friends, but he told me he wants to have phone sex, and online he he makes up a lot of jokes relating to us having sex. Then just recentally he told me the actual feeling is getting harder to resist, and he wants to explore our "dirtier" side more. Personally i think i'm too young to have sex. Do you think this is normal for a 17 year old, or should i be worried?
2006-12-16 16:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear "He's very eager?",
I have read your question very cafefully. If you are feeling pressured by your boyfriend, then you are NOT ready!!! I mean 17? Can you even DRIVE? What happens if you have sex with him and then he dumps you?!?!? Then you'll get stuck pregnant raising a child by yourself. That will not make you happy!!! Go with your instinets. =] Good luck.
2006-12-16 16:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by *smile* =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say his behavior is normal so far. I can't promise it won't get worse.
Maybe not 100% normal, but at least reasonably close to normal. But you say he's your ex and he wants to explore the dirtier side? Shouldn't he be more focused on just getting back together first? I don't fully understand all the details, but maybe I don't need to.
2006-12-17 00:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to start having sex at your age. What worries me is what he is saying. I don't know the guy, but could he be abusive? I hope not. Make it crystal clear to him that you don't want to have sex with him. If he's a true friend then he'll stop. You can also tell him you are interested in someone else. If he gets jealous, get away from him.
Good luck.
2006-12-17 00:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bikini bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his eagerness is very normal. if you dont feel like going to that level with him then dont. you might lose a good friend over that. i did we are still friends but it has never reall been the same. tell him to chill. your right to be worried cause peer pressure is a b****, especially when it coming from some one your so close with. do the right thing and hold em off.
2006-12-17 00:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is "normal?" If you mean "is it normal for a 17-year-old guy to act like a sex-crazed ***?" then...yes, kinda. I suppose most guys at that age are thinking about it. But it is absolutely not right, nor normal, for him to be acting as if this whole thing is your problem. If he keeps up, tell him to (as my boyfriend just said) "go **** off."
2006-12-17 00:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by allimarie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my god do not agree with him to have a sex if not you will be reget it because u not ready for this yet beside i don't think ur mom like this when u tell ur mom about this guys also u still in high school if he want to do it tell him go to hell or do by himself
2006-12-17 00:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by CryAlone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 12 year olds that've lost their virginity!!!!have sex wit him, i mean how likely is it that u'll find another guy that likes u that much? if it doesn't work out then give him my email....i'd like to explore his dirtier side......
2006-12-17 00:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by PinkPanther 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At best, he doesn't sound like a mature man. I do not recommend continuing your contact with him.
2006-12-17 00:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age isnt really wut matters...its how u feel inside....if your not ready than your not ready...dnt let him presure u into doing ne thing u dnt want....and if u dnt want to get back w/him than dnt....its your life....u life it!
2006-12-17 00:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋