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Is it consistant with Wicca to ask this? I think it is but just learning.

Truth is I love somebody very deeply. I can't find her. She knows enough to find me if she tries. I think our feelings are mutual and miss her alot. She had some other issues in her life and left town.

2006-12-16 15:29:16 · 9 answers · asked by rostov 5 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

9 answers

wow I wish my HPS was awake,
Hummm....

I would say dont go with a spell, but burn candles.

Get a red candle and hold it in both hands and concentrate real hard think about how much you love her and miss her, dont wish anything negitive. Or that she would come back, because that would be interfearing with free will majorly
put energy into it like... maybe you would find her, something that would help you find her. That way your not interfearing with her free will.

And also your not relying on the candle to do all the work cuz it dont work that way :P

But you put all that love and energy straight from your heart and gut.. and soul into it and you light it! keep it lit for at least 15 mins

hope I helped and Hope i wasnt to confusing
Im tired right now so sorry hehe

2006-12-16 15:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Branwen 4 · 1 1

It depends on what you call Wicca. If you've got the fluff-bunny "ride a silver broomstick" attitude, then probably not at all.

On the other hand, you might do a spell that will bring you into contact if you are meant to be together. Then again, if fate and karma have something planned, perhaps you wouldn't be able to stay apart.

In any event, what a spell would do for you is to help you clarify your intentions as you create it. It would help you understand why this person is so special to you. It would help you direct a bit of energy her way, and perhaps let her clarify her feeligns toward you. Perhaps it might just nudge her a bit and call you.

Remember that not getting a call back isn't necessarily a failed spell; it might be that you aren't meant to be together. If the intent of the spell is to nudge, rather than force, you've probably got a better chance of success. Trying to control someone is a great deal more work, and somewhat less ethical.

On the mundane side, if you've had enough of a relationship to get to the point of actual love, you must know some people in common. Some work on the physical plane can't be considered out of order.

Blessed Be,

--Dee

2006-12-16 15:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 1 1

First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/6Rtoy

She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.

She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.

2016-07-19 15:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/q3oea

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

2016-04-27 22:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Tough one. If you were determined to do this, I would approach it from a "I am open to communication from this person if they choose" angle. Casting it solely on yourself, and leaving the final decision of her reaching out to you up to her.

If you mean something to make her call you, no, that is not okay.

My general guideline is if the intent of the spell has the phrase "to make someone..." then the ethics of it are extremely questionable.

2006-12-16 15:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

So cast a spell for a lost love! don't click ****** it was mess up your computer! Its a virus!

2006-12-16 15:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

If she knows enough about how to find you, but knows how to stay unfound herself, she's sending you a clear message. Sorry. Be in the light and heal.

2006-12-16 15:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 3 2

there are plenty of spell webs for free, get one if that is what you want, but...why mess with people's will ?
if she loves u , she will go back to u.
call her!

2006-12-16 15:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by peaceful light 5 · 1 2

Man...your on a dangerous path. You'd find a greater love in Jesus Christ who through God's Power has the ability to hook you up with her or someone that is unimagineably greater than her. Many other benefits too. PEACE!!!

2006-12-16 15:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by David H 4 · 0 7

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