Well, I kind of want to kind of don't-because don't know him except through facebook-kind of like myspace, he befriended me. I thought about bringing him a gift since it is his b-day/xmas party, and I'm not ready to call it a night, but since I have never met him in person, just through fb, I am kind of hesitant.
2006-12-16 15:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by clara m 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Since you're on facebook, I assume you're in college. In that case, why not go? Chances are, 1/2 the people there don't know the host period (not even through facebook). If you want to go, I say go and have as much fun as possible. After all, he does want you there!
2006-12-16 15:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by punksugaplum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good way to make a friend.
As long as this is a public place and you watch alcohol intake etc., and you leave by yourself...there should be no cause to worry.
Before you go, leave the address where you will be with a family member or friend.
Better yet, take a friend along.
Most times, invitations imply an included guest even if not stated.
If you really want to go but just feel uncomfortable because you are not that familiar with the host, bring a friend. Then have a good time.
2006-12-16 15:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Seattle 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a very immature and juvenile situation. I think you should stop caring about people and whether they like you or not. You're young and theirs plenty of other parties to be a part of in the future. Seeking revenge just makes you as low a person as she is. If it really bothers you that much the best thing you can do is show her how much you don't care you weren't invited. Tell her good luck on her party, and that you hope she has fun. Seriously let it be. Throw your own party if you want and do your own thing then.....
2016-05-23 01:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met this person in real life? If the answer is no, then don't go. You should get to know this person in real life before joining in on parties with them. If you definetely decide to go at least bring a friend along with you for safety purposes.
2006-12-16 16:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go under two conditions:
1) You can see the RSVP list and it will be a mixed crowd
2) You have a girlfriend who can go with you
It's probably harmless and he's just being friendly. But if you plan for the worst you'll usually be pleasantly surprised.
2006-12-16 16:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by aragon_the_younger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you are the only one invited to the "party" and he's a creep? Do you realize what kind of chances you are taking out there?
2006-12-16 17:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go, take a friend with you and be sure to let other ppl know where you're going. you never know about ppl you "meet" online. unless of course you have a mutual friend/friends. then i guess it would be safe. it may be kind of awkward though if you go alone and don't actually know anyone.
2006-12-16 15:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Manders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go,but bring a friend with you just in case.
2006-12-16 15:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go but take a friend and be careful of what you drink
2006-12-16 16:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by maddcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt go as you dont know him, and met him over the computer. it could be dangerous, as you really dont know him. people can be anything over the computer. go to parties with people you know.
2006-12-16 16:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by avalon123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋