Someone said to me "You are really beautiful" but I did not believe it, as I only ever heard that from my deceased boyfriend, but not normally from other people. I was not sure the friend was just being nice to say that or what. But he reassured me more than 2 times. My questions is: when do you tell a girl she is beautiful? Do you ever say that to someone just out of pity? I don't think I'm ugly, but at the same time I don't think I'm "really beautiful" either.
By the way, this friend would have no intention to go out with me because he is already happily married, and yes, he is not the type to have affairs. Neither am I for that matter.
2006-12-16 14:46:03 · 12 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A true friend would never say such a thi ng out of "pity". I am also happily married and I want to tell you that GOD has given us so many beautiful women in this world that I believe you probably ARE one of them! Every man and woman on this earth are absolutely unique. GOD has made that so. Each and every one has his/her own talents and abilities. We also have free will which allows us to make up our own minds. Whether you think that you are beautiful or not, there are people out there that think you are!! Have a great holiday.
Eds
2006-12-16 14:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Eds 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should not have 2 wait 4 a guy 2 tell u. that u are beautiful u should already no. beauty is within . Never think less of yourself always say i am beautiful,sexy, fabulous,and loving myself because if u don't think it who will and by the way i think that guy that happily married is hitting on u but don't go that way.
2006-12-16 17:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in the supermarket once and I saw a girl who was drop-dead gorgeous with the most beautiful eyes I had ever seen. I went up to her and told her so. After she blushed, she thanked me and we went our separate ways. I did not break any laws, compromise any confidences, cheat, or feel pity.
If you don't buy your inner or outer beauty, it is usually an issue of self-esteem. I had a girl friend who insisted that she was not beautiful. I told her that I don't date women who are not beautiful. It kills a man when he is being sincere and then told that he is a liar.
2006-12-16 15:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I think a gal is beautifull then I tell her. It does not mean that I am hitting on her or that I am giving her pity. But in this case that you have it sounds like he is trying to encourage you and build up your self esteem to try to get you back in the dating game.
2006-12-16 14:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Biker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see people as beautiful that others don't and I guess others do too. All I can suggest is be warey that he is not after just one things and that if he is genuine then perhaps it might be time to move on.
2006-12-16 14:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Deeneyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2006-12-16 14:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is kinda hilarious that as I sat right down to form this, i have spilt espresso down my correct! besides... sure at the same time as flirting comes on my innovations I wud call the female no longer actually acceptable yet outstanding too. properly, i'm now off to a job interview as a climate forecaster.
2016-10-18 09:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that he was assuring you that you will find someone soon and not to worry about looks
my bf says i'm beautiful all of the time
2006-12-16 14:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by jessesangul987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you snse sarcasm dont believe it but if they have a crush on you then i would beleive it because ppl around me giv me fake notes and see if i get happy and then relize its a joke take advantage of it
2006-12-16 14:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by clumsy gamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he saw some thin in u either on the outside or inside
2006-12-16 14:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋