so my ex gf and i broke up about 2 weeks ago, we got into big argument, afterward she broke up with me saying that we're incompatible and she lost her feeling for me and that we could never be together again, we were very much in love. I cried my heart out over her for 1 and a half week ,but lately she has been messaging me more and more, and we went out for lunch yesterday, she was acting stragely, trying to be cute, smile a lot, and look at me deeply.. do you think she wants to get back together or just emotional comfort ??? I felt as if i could have reached over and kiss her, but i acted very very cold yesterday cause i didnt want to get confused like i am now, please help!
2006-12-16 14:18:24 · 6 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could have realised what shes lost and want you back...or she could have realised that she cant find anyone better and want you back in which case tell her to get stuffed. Play it cool, dont call her or anything. If she really wants you back she will make the effort to talk to you.
2006-12-16 14:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be an emotional comfort or a wanting to get back. But either way u have to ask urself if u still have a true feeling for her. If u do, before u get back w/ her, ask her if she "HAS BEEN INTIMATED" w/ anyone during this 2 weeks apart because some girls often seek for emotional comfort after a recent break-up and one thing leads to another, BOOM next thing u find out that she's been pound hard by some dude. Now, I'm not saying all women are like that. But u should be aware of her, because u don't wanna find out a year from now that ur not the father of her child or if she has had cheated on u for many different guys & not knowing if she might have carried any dz at all.
Good luck!!
2006-12-16 22:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yeah, she wants to get back together with u.
why would she wants to go lunch with her ex-bf, unless she wants to get back with her ex-bf. get the point?
do u still love her? if u are, u better get back together with her and start a new fress relationship.
hope i helped u.
good luck.
LIFE IS SHORT SO DON'T BE A FRAID TO GRAB ALL THE CHANCES IN YOUR LIFE.
2006-12-16 22:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by alyson.s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ease yourself in slowly and return her smiles... if things start going to the next level (attempts on hand holding... hugs) then she still has feelings for you... she could have just been emotional when she broke up with you and now she regrets it
2006-12-16 22:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by jessesangul987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have waited a little while longer for her to express more hints to you. She might just come to say "lets get back together"
2006-12-16 22:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Favour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is obvious that she wants to get back with you. if u still have feelings for her then i would ask her out again. good luck!
2006-12-16 22:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋