We are friends at work.. we don't really talk much outside of work, but we flirt and stuff... I just want to get into a relationship with her.. i don't want to start off with all this "were talking for 2 weeks" ****. Likeee i want to be able to have her sleep over basically, not sex but just like we both are actually sleeping in the same bed together.
HOWwwwwww do i do that.
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2006-12-16 14:14:11 · 5 answers · asked by Dirty Pony, I Can't Wait to Hose You Down 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, so now hyphathetically sleaking say we have been going out for a while now, and my parents are going away for the weekend. would inviting her over to sleep over sound like all i want to do is have sex? when i know i really don't want to have sex until she does.
2006-12-16 14:20:06 · update #1
ok i only want to have sex if she does lets put it that way. i dont want to force it on her and have to beg her thats stupid
2006-12-16 14:26:12 · update #2
HUH??? So basically, let me get this straight...You want to "sleep" with this girl and have a relationship with her at the same time, but with no.....let's say, actual emotional contact....sounds like you may have to pay her, dude....If she "sleeps" with you with no "talking", it makes her a whore, so go ahead and pay her now and get it over with.
2006-12-16 14:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oky come on dude... you cant just have her "sleep" over without at least taking her out a few times an getting to know her.. chicks dont go for that kind of thing anyway unless they are easy.. take her out,show her a good time, romance her a little,give her some good conversation.. do this for a couple of months then she may feel comfortable with "sleeping" in the same bed with you..
2006-12-16 22:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by stayf_stayc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel and see ifshe feels the same. It won;t work if your ideas are not the same as hers
2006-12-16 22:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her. If the feeling is mutual, then... Problem solved.
2006-12-16 22:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Meesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no way around it, and just tell her that you respect her decisioin(sex-wise)
2006-12-16 22:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by tele t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋