I have dated quite a few women in my time, but I can never understand why women become so upset when I forget to call them for a day or two.
My question is why do women become so upset?
Thanks
2006-12-16 14:12:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all about the word 'forget'. Some people just have a hard time coming to grips with the fact they aren't the first thing on your mind 24/7. I mean, what else do you possibly have to think about besides them?
I think most females (if they try), can tell if someone sincerely forgets to call them and if someone is not calling because they are a shady little moron.
2006-12-16 14:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally a day or two doesn't bother me. I'm not a big phone talker anyways. But I would get down if i was seeing someone and things were still new and it had been say 4 or 5 days and he hadn't called. I would take it as a sign that the guy wasn't interested in me. I like when a guy calls because it tells me was thinking of me. But if he only calls because he's scared he'll get in **** if he doesn't.....well that's no good either lol. I don't think it should always be up to the guy to call either.
2006-12-16 14:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, wouldn't you get upset, if someone said that they were going to call and didn't? Saying you forgot is not good either. Women, like to feel special to the guy that they are seeing and not calling them or forgetting to call them, well, they do not feel special or important...If a game was on tv...(pick a sport) next week thursday at 4:30 pm...and it was over a week from now...you would remember it, but you cannot rememeber to call you girlfriend..see what I mean? The game would be more important, than remembering to call your girlfriend...or any girl that you are seeing...
2006-12-16 14:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple it's cuz when u tell her ur going 2 call n u don't she figures u lost interest n that upsets her cuz she thought u liked her so that's y u should neva eva promise women a call when u know u ain't gon call.
2006-12-16 14:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it makes us feel neglected, or that the date was so bad, that you don't want to see us anymore, a short call the following day, (just say your are a bit busy to chat, but just wanted to let you know I had a good time, I'll call you later, this would take you all of five minutes, and you would not spend 15 minutes, explaining, or apologizing, later.
2006-12-16 14:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you tell a girl your going to call them they get really excited about it, and then when you don't call that makes them upset! Would you like it when a girl you really liked told you she would call and she didn't call for a day or two because she forgot? If a girl thought you really liked them and you said you would call them, when you finally call you tell her oh i forgot... No wonder we get upset!!!
2006-12-16 14:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by AG3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is only you. The default habit in society is to adhere up for women no matter if or not they deserve it or no longer (you get pats on the back from maximum adult males and women). I actually have under no circumstances heard of a woman being referred to as a misandrist for sticking up for a female. perchance in Fantasyland. although I actually have heard of girls being referred to as "traitors" only for sticking up for a guy (one which deserved sticking up for, for sure). i do not imagine a real feminist fairly exists. i do not imagine there's a popularity in case you have self belief in genuine, really equality between the sexes.
2016-10-18 09:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you came across intrested and then you dont call its lack of intrest, if your going to say that your going to call have the desency to do so not when ever you get around to it its called concedration and if you dont plan on calling dont lead them on we would rather have it straight then a guy messing with usso the point is call if you say you will not 2 days later ok have a great christmas
2006-12-16 14:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by cinerella19772 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they lack interesting, exciting lives so their one date with some man takes on way to much importance.
2006-12-16 14:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i used to get upset too when a man says he would called but he just did not.. so now i learnt my lesson .. and dont expect much from it
2006-12-16 14:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by CT TC 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋