For the past few days, my ex has been wanting to break up with me. I kept asking for one more chance. He gave. But after that, he will be very very cold towards me. It hurts me a lot, then i will be hurt and cry. after hearing me cry, he will be irritated. then want to break up again. Now he really broke up with me. He chased me out of the house and his mum asked me not to call him again and give him his breathing space. My ex said that i was suffocating him by demanding a lot of attention and he has no time for his work and friends and family. He said im torturing him and he really wants to end the relationship badly. Please give me advice on how to make him come back to me. I need him badly. He is like the love of my life. Will not disturbing him like calling or messaging him works? Please help
2006-12-16 14:09:28 · 12 answers · asked by charmaine l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on- you're acting pathetic and desperate!
2006-12-16 14:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No due to the fact that I don't need them to come back. Once I broke up with my ex. I was scared that i would be by myself. But you move on and in finding anyone 10 times higher than him and also you in finding the wait to be valued at even as. But i no for some instances they do come back :)
2016-08-10 01:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by thieme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to give him his space, it might sound hard but u gotta trust me, i was the same i couldnt let go of my ex but i would always bother him and call him all the time he got tired of it so he broke up with me it took a while for me to realize that i was stocking him. if u just give it some time show ur ex that u need him but dont talk to him or try calling him show him that u wont be calling him all the time or asking him for stuff. it may be hard but if u try to call him after he told u to stop ur gonna make him want to forget about u even more. if u he really likes u he would miss u and would call u. dont call him wait for him to do so. u wouldnt want someones following u all the time and calling u would u? believe me i didnt call my ex he ended up calling me
2006-12-16 14:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by moon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you know how many men there are out there? if he wants to go then let him go.. he says he has no time for work family or friends? but i though that a girlfriend,someone that you love is supposed to be considered family and a friend??? theres a lesson that should be learned for you as well, breathing room and space in a relationship is a good thing, men and women should always have activities and friends that they hang out with other than their mate, dont smother your man, thats so not grown and sexy... get over it...
2006-12-16 14:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by stayf_stayc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont annoying him allot make him hate you alot more. Like what his mom said give him some breathing space. Then talk to him here and there and see what happens.
2006-12-16 14:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just leave the poor guy alone you crazy broad. He obviously is tired of you, move on with your life.
2006-12-16 14:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by HOVO 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you find the right person, you wont have to drastically change yourself to make them happy. It sounds like its time to move on.
2006-12-16 14:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by idontknowjustgivemeaname 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go. there are plenty of other fish in the sea. he is the one that is going to miss out
2006-12-16 14:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by greg j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to "make" your ex come back to you? What if I wanted you to be my girlfriend...would you? Probably not...because you didnt want to. I would not want to force you to do something that YOU did not want to do, therefore, why would you want to force him to "want" to come back to you?
2006-12-16 14:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jason M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it. or just ask him. thats what i did but he said no. so his best friend is my crush. Or mae him jelous.
2006-12-16 14:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋