For over the last two years, there has been a close friend/souldmate that I am very attracted to. She's currently in a relationship with another person whom they feel deeply about each other. Their situation can be described as a up and down relationship. There are times when they can see themselves getting married, and there are times they don't see a future with each other
Just recently, we've confessed to each other there is a mutual attraction towards each other for awhile. We see each other as soul mates, we connect on many levels and we understand each other very well. Yet, out of respect, I have not fully confessed my feelings about her due to her current situation.
2006-12-16 14:00:30 · 5 answers · asked by berkbum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Speak now or forever hold your peace.
2006-12-16 14:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to start dating other people. Three weeks ago I lost my favorite book. I searched everywhere for it and could not find it. It's an old edition and one that I am very attached to so I really put a alot of effort into it. Last week I finally broke and ordered another one from an antique book shop. The very next day I found the lost edition! You need a replacement if this is ever going to work my friend. Date others and if she is really your "soul mate" , wait and see how quickly she'll come around. Oftentimes what we think is the only one is really one of many.
2006-12-16 22:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by GoodCounsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell her soon, it may be too late. If there's talk about mutual attraction and being soulmates, what the hell are you waiting for? If you want something bad enough, sometimes you just have to go for it. If you stand on the sideline waiting, the opportunity of a lifetime may just pass you by.
2006-12-16 22:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, then drag her to the side, and express urself and tell her all the things u want her to know. But don't say anything u don't mean.
2006-12-16 22:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by resaml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like her u'll want her to be happy. help her out with her relationship be there when u she need u. dont tell her how u fell just yet. u dont want her to put her in a hard situation.
2006-12-16 22:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋