My husband hardly ever wants to be around but when he is he doesnt even talk to me he will text me on his phone. And is it normal that he checks out every women that passes him I mean a long good stare that I noticed and the women noticed. We have been married for a long time and many of those years have been bad. He does nothing around the house I did all of the remodeling and he has the nerve to tell me it sucks. He and I both work but it seems like I dont have a husband because he doesnt act like one.
2006-12-16 13:48:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he text messages you even when you are together? and you put up with this kind of bull sh**? you need to grow some b**** and get rid of him.
2006-12-16 13:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by chris r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously,go to Oprah .com and there is a column that asks you if you want to be on the show and then gives you different topics to choose from that may apply to you.There is a subject about women that stay in bad marriages. They want to know your story. I think that would be a possibility for getting some help for your marriage.Obviously there are enough people that stay in bad marriages as your is and they want to help throw some light on it. Your husband is not happy in your marriage either but he is going to punish you til you leave him because he doesn't want to feel guilty about leaving you. Make a stand . If you are afraid of him,please get help. God bless you and MerryChrist'mass
2006-12-16 22:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then i would get all the evidence i could from this low life. Then i would take him to divorce court. You could get everything he is worth. Its already like he is not even there, atleast earn the right to find someone that will treat you right.your a person to and you have feelings. What is wrong with these low life men now days. Its like they dont have any feelings at all in there hearts. Ladies start fighting back enough is enough.
2006-12-16 21:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by valerie s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi i think the spark has gorn after awile ppl who found friends love togher just seam to forget why they got togher in there lifes so the love you once had suffers really you dont mean too, its moreless your so use to just being togher and take things for granted. to get back the spark is to re find it togher so the love needs for eachother gets the big boost it realy needs, but it takes two of cose and that takes talking understanding togher if he wont then let him see what things be like with u away on your own a little more see if he misses you at all really theres a few ways to work on things but you need to try all for your marrage.
2006-12-16 22:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that this happened. There is definatly something going on between you two, and I would reccommend counseling. If that doesn't help, you should at the very least consider divorce. I hope this helped! Good luck to you!
2006-12-16 21:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by ClimbingChica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back away. I know this is hard and why should you, it's your husband! I have to give mine a reality check once in awhile by doing my own thing and ignoring him with a grin. Don't let him know you're life is great doing things on your own. He has to see it and I garrantee he will ask you what's going on?
2006-12-16 21:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. omg that is funny... jk. Thats seriously sad. You need to leave.. did this just start or has communication always been bad. Good luck hunny. Wow.. time to move on to someone deserving of you. Yeah its been a long time and you comfortable.. but now its time to get sexy, kick him out, and get someone who will appreciate.
2006-12-16 21:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ bARbIE ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your husband has communication issues. Seek counseling.
2006-12-16 21:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mailing is in so thats ok
not wanting to talk to you count your blessings
not doing any work at house ,just being a guy
freedom of speech, so if it sucks,it sucks.
but a red thong he'll come around
2006-12-16 21:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe remodeling isn't the only thing you suck at?
2006-12-16 21:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋