ok..... i was sexually harrased yesturday in my journalism class. the guys (yes, their were two of them) were humping me, licking my hand, groping me, and picking me up and slapping my ***. i was screaming for help (THIS WAS INSIDE A CLASSROOM), and all the students just thought they were flirting, and the teacher was in his office talking on the phone. was this just playful teasing, flirting, or like a dry rape???? i dont know. it really hurt me emotionally though cause i work with these guys to create the student news paper. please help me!!!!!!
2006-12-16 13:42:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did report them immediatly. the police came, and they got taken to the police station, and yes.. charges were pressed.
2006-12-16 14:05:30 · update #1
Charges need to be brought agianst these guys. This is defantly rape. When your saying no they are not even suppose to touch you. I would take it all the way. Its going to have to be up to us girls to stop the disrespect these guys are showing girls now days.girls need to start fighting back. There is no since in this kind of behavior. I makes me mad to hear things like this is going on. I just want to casterate a guy everytime i hear about this kind of abuse.
2006-12-16 13:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to school officials in the office. This is a matter that is above a teacher's head. Someone needs to be informed of the unwanted sexual advances the young men made towards you. That sounds terrible to happen to any young woman. No means no...no touching, no kissing, no licking, most definitely their hands should not be on your private areas. That sounds like the young men could be potential rapists, they don't have respect for your body. And men can feel sexual pleasure by groping you, they can really get their thrills even though you are not naked. That sounds disgusting that the other students laughed, and if you are in College, I don't know who would really be tolerant of watching that...especially young women. If you were to tell they'd be in big trouble. I would make a report with the school, since they thought it was a joke. IF you say nothing, there may not be favorable consequences. It's best to speak up for yourself. (Especially if they were pressing closely against your body parts, and if they had a hard on most definitely report it)
2006-12-16 13:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my guy friends do this me all the time. i dont find it a big deal. it sounds like those guys were just flirting. the humping was probably just for fun. the licking ur HAND(BIG DEAL!) just 2 tease u. the groping is borderline...i can understand why that would bother u. the picking u up was just teasing. so what if they slapped ur butt? i think ur making a big deal out of it...u proably lead them on anyway. the whole thing sounds like flirting except the groping. u probably should report it.
2006-12-16 14:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Flutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the class would think it was flirting, unless you were flirting back or at least laughing playfully at what they were doing. Did you report them? The could get in serious trouble, if you really felt violated. We on here can't do anything about it, but I know from seeing that some girls do take things over board sometimes crying rape or harassment. Really, if you feel offended, which I would you should go to your teacher, the principal, your parents, and the police!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-16 13:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have never heard of flirting to that degree before! I would let someone know what happened for sure! No matter what--if you screamed or said no---it is definitely something someone should know! I don't think it was rape since there wasn't sex, but it was harassment.
2006-12-16 13:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,it is way over the line and it was against your will and disrespectful of you ,the class and themselves. These are not your friends. Demand an apology to the class and you and report them.God Bless You and Merry Christ'mass
2006-12-16 13:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to report this it is dry rape as u say but it's actually sexual harassment. u sound like your really uncomfortable with these guys so tell the police. this could escalate to physical rape.
2006-12-16 13:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by taytaymm28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sexual harrassment you should let your teacher know. I understand how you feel because i had a coworker who would hump me and try to feel me up he thought it was just fun to "flirt" that way. Don't let them do that to you, some guys are dumb and they think that it is just flirting or that they are just doing it because they are your friends and it is fun. Let them know that you do not like to play like that.
2006-12-16 13:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by ad121ana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you didn't like it and didn't want it to happen then it's sexual harassment.
women never ask for this kind of stuff talk to some one if it is still bothering you.
speaking from personal experience.
if you like it then it's not harassment it's just playing.
but if you don't like it report it.
not all guys are the same they just do it because they think you like it and it's funny.
but do something about it.
you know what to do.
2006-12-16 13:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's quite sad, I'm sorry that had to happen to you. Any sexual activity that you did not want to be done, but happened anyway by someone is harassment. Talk to the school counsler.
2006-12-16 13:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Horsetrainer89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋