Not a natural flirt? Not to worry - anyone can learn the simple social skills that will attract others to you.
Instructions
STEP 1: Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you. STEP 2: Smile, smile, smile. STEP 3: Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others. STEP 4: Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters. STEP 5: Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh. STEP 6: Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall. STEP 7: Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore. STEP 8: Gauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet. STEP 9: Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date. Tips & Warnings
Avoid negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don't really need to.
Give yourself time to learn what types of conversation starters work for you. Practice flirting whenever you can - at the grocery store or Laundromat, or with your friends.
Sexually suggestive remarks or touching are inappropriate among co-workers. Keep any office flirting G-rated at all times.
2006-12-16 13:39:14
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answered by Stephanie F 7
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Some people view laughing, smiling and joking as being flirtatious. In that sense, I think it's Innocent, but again, it really depends on HOW you are going it. Otherwise, I agree that flirtation is just a way to get attention or give someone "special" attention. I don't like it, and neither does my husband...and believe me, my hubby was a very big flirt before we got together. It's part of his personality, yet he manages to avoid it since we've been married because he knows it's disrespectful towards me and he wouldn't want me doing the same.
2016-03-14 14:16:43
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answered by Anonymous
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How exactly do u flirt????
and what is a good example of flirting?
2015-08-11 15:31:30
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answered by Melitta 1
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2006-12-16 13:41:32
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answered by Cupid 1
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like help her with her bags. tell her she looks nice,smells nice stuff like that walk her home. ask her if she wants to get a milkshake or something or wants to go to the arcade. but what ever u do don't make her uncomfortable. don't follow her every were or stare at her.
2006-12-16 13:42:08
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answered by taytaymm28 3
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umm hahahaha teasing each other or getting more comfortable like lightly touching the other person in a playful manner, making little jokes... you'll know when you do it because you'll get that feeling.
2006-12-16 13:39:12
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answered by starrybluestarz 1
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Anything but touching. That will just get you a kick to a certain spot or the evening at the County Hotel. :)
2006-12-16 13:43:28
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answered by Chuck J 2
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You can talk to the person and get to know each other. Hang out a bit... just talk and have a good time!!!
2006-12-16 13:39:45
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answered by Anonymous
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find a hot girl or a girl you like and just talk to them and maybe get close and snuggle with her. Just have fun with her and she will do the same.
2006-12-16 13:38:35
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answered by christine 2
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grindin on someone, squeezing someone near u when u hug, rubin some one's body etc.
2006-12-16 13:40:32
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answered by Ian 3
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