my b.f is makeing me mad like he will talk to me then igor me and then do the same thing again and when i talk to him on the phone hes like ill call u back and he never does and one time last week i was talking to him on the phone and this girl came online and hes like omg my girl that is my freind from Vermont is on can i call u back after i talk to her and he never did it ticked me off hes ticking me off becuase one day he acts like he cant be away from me then the next day hes like oh i dont need her its bothering me help me i dont know waht to do becuase i broke up with him once befor and he cryied his eyes out and then i got back with him but i dont know what i should do please help me bfor i snapp and do somthing that i shoudnt
2006-12-16 13:34:39 · 10 answers · asked by becca p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sounds like a JERK!
he might only be "using" you..
i say dump him, you deserve better
2006-12-16 13:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him call you from now on. If he never calls you, then you know his feelings and commitment towards you and you are free to find someone else. If he does call and asks you why you haven't, be honest and tell him what's wrong. Don't yell at him, just best as you can calmly explain and try to work out a solution. I've found that with my fiance' of 4 years that honesty is the best policy. And try to work out any problems fairly and immediately. Don't leave it open to lingering, hard feelings. So far it's worked for us and we have never once broken up. All relationships require work and compromise from both partners if they're to last though. Good luck!
2006-12-16 13:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Up an Evolutionary Tree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I personally think he is doing it on purpose because he knows your gonna be there for him......and him talking to other girls is NOT a good sign at all.I say to give him a few weeks or even days and see if he changes.If not I think you will know what to do.Sorry bout your guy probs,I have a couple myself.
-blondi
2006-12-16 13:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by blondi_15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first tell him whats bothering you cuz guys aren't mind readers. then ignore him... dont answer calls. dont respond to IMs. let him think about how obnoxious he is. dont get into a relationship with a boy who cries everytime something doesn't go his way.
2006-12-16 13:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nina Abb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first wat you need to do is take a chill pill and calm down OK.. next thing you do is tell him you need to talk eye-to-eye without him being distracted. tell him that he needs to shape up his addatuide or els you guys are gonna SPLIT
tryit in a nice way and a mean way......!
good luck and have a Merry Christmas and a Happy Ney year!!
2006-12-16 13:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Chanel babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him right back....and don't let him know that things bother you so much...be cool about things, and he will wonder why its not bothering you...maybe even start treating him like a friend...be less available to see him too....let him wonder about you...so then you know hes thinking only about you...then he'll come running back.
2006-12-16 13:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by missamerica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have problems committing. You may want to give him space to figure out his life.
2006-12-16 13:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you guys need to talk ask him whats goig on he's probely suffering from some kind of confustion about somethink talk tell him ask him whats going on it's your right.
2006-12-16 13:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he put another girl infrount of u thats not family, dump him.
2006-12-16 13:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by caitlyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him again...... this time for real!!
2006-12-16 13:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋