okay well i like this guy named jason and he likes me to but he doesnt wanna go out wit me because he went out with my friend and he said he might feel akward!!so i dont know if i should juss tell him to be with me or i should forget about him??
2006-12-16 13:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by onlygodcanjudgeme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's already told you he doesn't want to go out with you then you're only option is to forget about him.
Begging is never good.
2006-12-16 13:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he really likes you, lay your cards on the table. Tell him how you feel and that your friend has nothing to do with a relationship between the two of you. Let him know that you need to find out if your feelings for each other might be lifelong and you both deserve to find out if you are closing the door on a life that could be wonderful.
2006-12-16 13:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I look at it like this and tell my daughters as well, when people break up they are free game. The rules of someone can't go with someone else because they dated a friend is bull, what if, just what if you and he were ment to be and your missing out cause the stupid break friend rule?
2006-12-16 13:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsandy81671 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A really simalar thing happend with me and my boyfreind,only it was vise versa. My boyfreind dated one of my best freinds but I had never met him,they broke up and about a year later I meet him at at band camp,he liked me even after he found out I was freinds with his ex,who he also remains freinds with,but I was really unsure about going out with best freinds ex,then he ask me out,I told him maby checked with my freind(well kinda ask her permission) and we've been together for a good while now,but I make sure that we dont get freindly at all when my freinds are around and that keeps from all the aquared moments coming up.
since they where both well over each other it was easy for him to move on and love me,even though I really didnt fall for all that at first,It was really true,when we're all togeather its just like a group of freinds,np!
2006-12-16 13:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only choice is to give him time. Sometimes men like to chase. Maybe he needs space to figure out how he feels about you. It will be hard, but you need to have give him space.
2006-12-16 13:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend and see if they would mind if they don't then tell him and tell him there is nothing to feel bad about, if they do mind then don't forget him keep him close and besides if he really likes you it wont matter to him.
2006-12-16 13:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid trouble with him and your friend, forget about him.
2006-12-16 13:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him i went through something similar and it turned out great. go for it!!!
2006-12-16 13:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it ok with ur friend? just tell him that if he really likes u it shuldnt matter.
2006-12-16 13:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by caitlyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him
2006-12-16 13:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋