he thinks i purposely took off my bracelet he bought me, and i really lost it, and he doesn't believe me...and he's always getting mad when i miss his phone calls.. Then when i want to leave his house early he gets really upset...whats his deal???
2006-12-16 13:25:55 · 20 answers · asked by missamerica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to have honesty, communication, and trust in a relationship on BOTH sides. Unfortunately, it sounds like he doesn't trust you for whatever reason. I had a boyfriend like that once. It doesn't work. My boyfriend would come over to my apartment and when someone would knock at my door and I didn't know who It was, (I never answer the door If I don't know who it is), when the person would leave, he would even go as far to say that whoever it was on the other side of the door, was someone I was having an affair with and that was why I didn't answer the door. Or he would pick up the other line just to see who I was talking to. I am a faithful and honest person and would NEVER cheat and when someone becomes that jealous, it is time to end the relationship, because, it only gets worse, not better. It has nothing to do with you, it is their insecurities that they cannot handle. If he cannot take you for your word and trust you, you need to end the relationship. Better now than later when you have more time invested. Don't let him get as far as my ex did. Best wishes to you. You will find someone who will respect you and trust you and communicate and be honest with you far better than this guy. You could ask him to go to counseling if you really wanted to try to make it work. Tell him he is taking it way too far and you are going to leave him if he can't trust you. If he isn't willing to work on it, leave him.
2006-12-16 13:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that he sounds controlling sweetie. if you guys aren't serious then i think that you should start lookin for someone else or better yet take a break from guys and find yourself. you sound really young, maybe you just need to tell him that you need time to do your own things and he will either grow up and respect that or he will be immature like he sounds already and he will throw a fit. you dont need that you need a man to understand you. good luck hun.
2006-12-16 21:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by ~annie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes insecure and he knows that your the best thing that has ever happened to him and hes afraid that your going to upgrade. If your not interested in upgrading, spend more time with him, go above and beyond. If he still bitches and moans, drop him, hes a mamas boy.
2006-12-16 21:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by megdbrown10304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big time control issues... this will likely not change for him, so you might want to consider whether you want to be latched to an insecure control freak for the rest of your life...
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2006-12-16 21:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why he would do that but he sounds really controlling.For me personally I would leave him,that's just too much he should love you enough to trust and believe you and to know that you would never lie or cheat on him =D
2006-12-16 21:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Control, insecurity and paranoia. Have you given him reason to distrust you? If not,he has some issues to deal with. If you stay with him and he doesn't deal with it,guess who will?God Bless and Merry Christ'mass
2006-12-16 21:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guys sounds very controlling. I would watch out as this behavior will likely get worse. Ever hear of domestic abuse? This is how it starts... Get out now!
2006-12-16 21:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a bf like that. It's very annoying. I think someone cheated on him and he thought we were all like that. You may want to talk to him about it and express how much you hate it and that you love him.
2006-12-16 21:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm let's see...
1.) You lose gifts he buys you
2.) He calls you and you don't answer
3.) When spending time with him you want to leave early
Gee, I wonder why he doesn't believe you??
2006-12-16 21:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's either insecure or hes cheating
or he could be a control freak either way it doesnt look good get out fast it could only get worse
2006-12-16 21:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋