The relationship I have with my boyfriend is going nowhere. We've been together for eight years and are "shacking up".
2006-12-16 13:21:23 · 8 answers · asked by tamika j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you feel the relationship isnt heading where you want it to go....just be honest and let him know....he may change and if he doesnt want to then you can leave then knowing that you have given it a go and there are no lies behind you.....
2006-12-16 13:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd think if you've been together for so long you should know him well enough to talk to him. Who knows you might even be able to repair the problem in your relationship. Sometimes I think when a couples together for so long they start to just get comfortable with each other and a lot of times this can cause them to stop doing the little things that made you fall in love with them in the first place. Tell him how you feel and see where it goes. good luck to you. ;o)
2006-12-16 13:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just said " This relationship is going no where. We've been together for eight years and we havent gotten any where. Its best we just break up and live our sperate lives" telling him the truth would be the best way to go with it. there is no reason to lie. its not liek youa re doing something wrong.
2006-12-16 13:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a conversation that goes something like this..
"it's been 8 years now and I feel as if our relationship has not progressed. I need to move on."
Then move. You should even have a placed lined up so you won't back out of having this conversation.
2006-12-16 13:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1stly make sure tht this is definately wht u wanna do. Then u better just have a talk with em... nothin along the lines of 'this is goin nowhere... ur dumped!'
2006-12-16 13:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say your gay lol jk jk. just say something on the lines like this is working out or i found a better life. if you have kids go to counsleing
2006-12-16 13:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and let him know how you feel and what you want just find a good honest way to say it
2006-12-16 13:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth, that you need someone who can give you what you want and unfortunately he's not that person
2006-12-16 13:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋