well i just got outta a bad relationship (cheating boyfriend with my x-best friend) and ive been feeling really lonely. its been 9 monthes already and i havent thot about any guy. i kno ive got my girl friends but then when i went to the mall and saw them shopping with him and his friends, well i didnt feel great. my sister and i hang out but its not really the same. what should i do to feel a little more loved and a little less lonely?
2006-12-16 13:12:12 · 12 answers · asked by JOrdan M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I havn't had that lovin feeling in a long time..I feel your pain
2006-12-16 13:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an Assembly of God Church, or a Methodist Women's study group, there you will begin to experience why you exist.
These women are Godly women usually and should not miss-guide you. It says in the word of God to congregate and not
forsake the assembling in the Lord! Get yourself rejuvenated
in finding out what the Lord has for you! You must first love yourself, mind body and soal! Another thing you can
do is join a health club and some aerobics to be around energetic
people who set goals and actually do something to accomplish them.
2006-12-16 21:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest finding a different circle of friends. That way you aren't constantly running into thay situation and getting your nose rubbed in it and being hurt. Once you find another, then that relationship will grow and per chance you'd run into those former people it won't hurt and you can move on. I'd hang with the sister instead of no one so you aren't alone, but stay away from the others.
2006-12-16 21:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by crimsongal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. When i got out of my relationship it was really hard..i dint want to eat or go out with any of my friends my sister and my family tried hard to make me feel like me again or make me happy. I just couldnt bring myself to do it i really wanted to help myself but i felt helpless. Everyone goes through this and im sad to say that its not easy it can take maybe 1 year to get over this...but think about it i meen your bf has moved on now its time for you to move on hes out there having fun while your here feeling lonely? so when your frineds try to help you let them maybe youve tried to but try harder this time during these situatiosn the only person who can hellp u is urself! good luck!
2006-12-16 21:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a yoga class, or a gym, where you do not know the people around you. Depending on yourself will help you appreciate you more and you will mingle with people who have no idea what you have been through. And eat chocolate occasionally. :)
2006-12-16 21:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Hatem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It generally happens when u r just out of a relationship. Everyone around you seem luckier than you. Please do not worry. Time will heal everything. There is something better in store for you. Just be patient. Believe in God. He will take care of you.
2006-12-16 21:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find yourself and love your self and sooner or later you will find someone to love you dont rush it or you may put your self through the same thing again i been through it and i had to get myself together and realize that was his loss and i got myself together and now i am married to a wonderfull man i found out noone can love you if you are not happy with yourself goodluck
2006-12-16 21:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start dating again and find a guy taht will treat you like a lady. and that means with respect
2006-12-16 21:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first start by loving yourself and the man upstairs (god) that real love evrything else is superficial (except for family
2006-12-16 21:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get lost Man, there is no such website.
2006-12-16 21:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Girls M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋