Depends on my relationship with the guy.
If it was a boyfriend, I'd break up with him. If it was a friend or family member I would blatantly tell him that I don't appreciate his criticism and if he wants to have a positive relationship with me he needs to keep his negative comments to himself. If it was a stranger I would ignore him: how would he know anything about my flaws?
2006-12-16 13:06:13
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answer #1
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answered by Eve 5
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Thank him. How else would I know? I'd rather know so that I can decide whether or not that "flaw" is something I'd change or something I'd rather hang on to. I'm happy with the way I am, but if I could be a better person in any way I'd like to have the option. You don't really have the option if you don't know how you come off to others.
2006-12-16 13:11:06
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answer #2
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answered by sexmagnet 6
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I'd think he was a jerk with no social graces. Flaws aren't objective, they are subjective. What you think is a flaw someone else might value as an asset. It is just a reflection of your own insecurities.
2006-12-16 13:05:50
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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I already know my flaws and if a guy who I dont know pointed them out to me I'd think he was a stalker. If it was a friend I'd ask them for advice to go with my flaws =)
2006-12-16 13:06:11
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answered by India 1
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I think it's hard for anyone to have flaws pointed out to them. Especially if they are flaws that a person has possibly thought about themselves. I think if it's someone you're dating that if makes you doubt yourself and possibly doubt that they really care. If it's someone I don't really know then I think I would just be mad because they don't really know me to point it out but it'd still hurt my feelings a little.
2006-12-16 13:06:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Ignore him. Most of the things he said is probably out of jealousy anyway. Besides, some of your "flaws" may actually be very attractive to some women.
2006-12-16 13:05:00
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answered by Callie 2
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Well, he is obviously someone who is insecure, and if he pushed his presence, I would call the POlice. If they took too long and he followed me, I would tase his A_$$.
2006-12-16 13:11:46
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answered by Hatem 2
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I'd say "what are you gay?" a guy you dont know doing that has either got to be gay or really crazy!! lol
2006-12-16 13:06:54
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answered by dauschaundlovers 2
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i'd kick him in the a$$!!!! guys are supposed to tell us girls all the GOOD things about us not the bad things.
if you did this to some girl, you better run! she get all her friends to come after you
2006-12-16 13:06:31
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answered by pinkballerina101 2
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I'd probably say, "I can't believe you missed one of them, so here let me show you." ;o) Then as he was crawling off I'd say, "have a nice day." ;o)
2006-12-16 13:14:54
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answered by ? 5
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