What if you came home early and saw your son and his g/f sleeping in each other's arms?? She was in these victoria's secret little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other. Should I wake them b4 my husband gets home?? Should I wait until tom morning when they realize we came home early?? What if my husband instead of getting mad asks my son "how was it"?? Are the chances pretty high they had sex?? Do I wake them?? Do I send her home and call her parents or let her stay??
2006-12-16 12:52:20 · 11 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
They are both 16.
2006-12-16 12:56:46 · update #1
What should I do if when they wake up and see us, my hubby is like " so how was it?"??
I think they may have b/c his hand is on her in a way that is not "normal".
2006-12-16 12:58:17 · update #2
Should I go in there and be like" you may want to put on some more clothes, b/c you father is almost home"??
If they totally freak and jump when I say this, did they probably have sex??
2006-12-16 13:01:34 · update #3
I would wake them and tell them, with a smile, that it might be a good idea to get dressed before dad gets home.
Don't call her parents. It won't stop them from having sex. It could only cause friction at best.
The chances that they had sex are around 100%.
I WOULD however ask your son if they are using a good contraceptive. Is she on the pill? Does he wear a condom?
Assuming they are old enough to be having sex.
I think 18 years of age is fine. If she's 17, that would be OK, as long as she is on the pill or has an IUD.
Some girls, like I was are ready at 17. We mature faster than boys.
If she is not using a contraceptive and she is 16 or younger, then I would notify her mother. That will be her mother's responsiblity to see that she get on the pill ot something.
Telling them that they can no longer have sex will not stop them. The only thing that would change is they would resent you and feel that you just don't understand.
Sounds like a good time to have a talk.
2006-12-16 13:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake them up. Send her home. Call her parents. Both you and your husband have a loooong talk with your son. Remind your son that child support is no joke and if he keeps that up, his financial freedom will be gone for the next 20 years.
2006-12-16 20:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sending her home and calling her parents depends on if they're responsible enough to handle the situation. I'd wake them up and ask them what happened but don't freak out when you ask him. there's 65% chance they had sex.
2006-12-16 20:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wake up your son, tell him to wake up his girlfriend and take her home. i would tell your husband, and the three of you will have a "little chat" with your son when he gets home. yes, i would contact the girlfriends parents as well
2006-12-16 21:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god get a life! so what if they had sex? they're both 16 and old enough to do whatever they like...waking them up would just embarass all of you and for what? no reason to get involved. trust me...neither of them will appreciate it.
2006-12-16 21:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be.. but then I would have a serious talk with him.. did you know she was coming over there? And they will be very embarrassed when they find out you saw them like that.. expecially her, I would know. But dont jump on him and accuse him of doing it cause well.. what if he didnt??
2006-12-16 21:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Gin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't assume that they had sex
but I would let them sleep there
and try to catch them when they woke up
and ask a question like "so what happend last night?" or "how was last night?"
and then try to bring an answer together.
2006-12-16 20:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends...how old is your son and his girlfriend?if she is 16 or under im sure her parents would like to know...wake them up because if you dont he will assume that kind of behavior is accepted by you
2006-12-16 20:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg wake them up and freak em out. so what if they had sex? how old are they? do u really care? i mean u did leave him home when u left. what did u expect???
2006-12-16 20:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by misunderstood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake them up ask them if they had sex if so asked if they were safe. tell them to never do it again and call her parents
2006-12-20 12:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by scholaryoshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋